My wife has done everything for me and i would like to please her in every way. I want her to take control and make me do anything she wishes for one year. BUT she wont how can i change her mind it means the world to me..........HELP
2006-07-26 11:05:55 · 24 answers · asked by Daniel M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she doesn't want a looser for a husband.
2006-07-26 11:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have genuine hearts and they will forever be devoted to one man, all their married life...
If you want your wife to role play, there are a few things that you can do to convince her..
Visit a fetish store and have her dress the part, be there with her to choose the outfit that you would most like her to wear and then you and her can role play together. This will probably embarass her alot and she will blush and turn red in the face at the thought, but the way to convince her is to let her know that you want this for her and you want to feel out of control. She will oblige, because she is the wonderfully, caring wife.
2006-07-26 11:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your willingness to return the service that your wife has given you is admirable, but you may be taking it to an extreme. What I have done in the past is to offer as a gift to my wife to take over some household tasks that she finds most unpleasant. For example, she hates to iron clothes, so I made a little certificate one time which said that I was taking over the responsibility for the family's ironing and gave this to her as a gift. If you use this approach, you may find her less likely to reject your suggestions. I hope it goes well. May God bless and keep you.
2006-07-26 11:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by blowry007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just CRAZY... If you want to make your wife happy and reward her for loving you and taking care of you, all you have to do is pay attention. Buy her flowers for no reason, if you see a towel in the floor, pick it up. Make dinner for her sometime, take her away for a romantic weekend.... Get a clue, most people do not want a slave, they want a soul mate.
Good luck, and don't forget to tell her every day how much you love her.
2006-07-26 11:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at subtle hints, when shes tired fix the blankets how she likes to lay in them. Get up early, and clean the house. Ask her if there is anything she is tired of doing around teh house, and then do it for her. Women like you to just know what they want, and for you to just do it. They don't like to tell you bc then it loses a lot of the meaning. I know that sounds stupid, and frustrating, but I think it will make her happy, and help solve your problem. (also if you are talking just in the bedroom buy a book lol)
2006-07-26 11:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to change her mind? Pay close attention to her actions. Interact with her. She will tell you in her own way what will please her. A great way to please her is to provide security for her. Make sure that you have a "goose egg" in the bank. If she is secure in that, show her that you are devoted to her. Compiment her appearance. Shower her with little notes of affection. Tell her how much you appreciate what she does for you. You do not have to become her slave. Just love her. Women are very verbal. You have to tell her. Do not be annoying about it. Just be consistent.
2006-07-26 11:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't she actually telling you what she wants you to do. She said she didn't want to take control....many ladies don't like to be in control. So why don't you listen to that. Find something else to do with her that she will enjoy just as much.
2006-07-26 11:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by serveduphot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky having a wife so considerable you! Well, I would say to don't have to ask her to make you do something for her, it sounds like not from your heart just you feel quilty. There are so many things that you can do to please her like get her flowers, give her hug or keep telling her how appreciated you are etc...
2006-07-26 11:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would have a list in every room of the house!
If you are a pod person let me give you my address - I would love for you to ummm have a talk with my hubby! lol Just dont drive her crazy by smothering her.
kathy
2006-07-26 11:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the first time I have heard this sinario, maybe you should talk to my man,lol. She is lucky to have you. My suggestion is to talk to her about it. Tell her you would like to treat her like the Queen she is for a while and demand it! Good Luck.
2006-07-26 11:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change her mind. try showing how much you love her in a different way! you can try to work harder to beat her at the things that have to be done.
2006-07-26 11:09:04 · answer #11 · answered by Lalilalila<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋