is this a bad thing??? we went to a hotel and had sex. afterward she asked my if it was possible to love two people at the same time. should i run away???
2006-07-26 11:17:36 · 31 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stick it out ...... maybe ya can knock her up
2006-07-26 11:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You just said that you had sex with a married woman, and want to know if that is a bad thing, hummmmmmmm. Well, I think the question here is: Would you do what you did to her in front of her HUSBAND---what---I didn't hear that--Oh, you, said no, well then I guess then you could say, yep it was a bad thing!!!
If you was married how would you feel if your wife had sex with another man? I guess you wouldn't like it to much.
How many other men do you think that she is sleeping with besides YOU!! Come on lets get real here. She is married and still sleeps with yet another man. In a way you are as bad as she is, because you KNEW that she was married before you had sex with her. Why did you have to go a hotel any way, what was wrong with going to your house or her house?
My motto: Don't say or do anything that you wouldn't do or say in front of your mate.
What ever happens to you or her--you both deserve it, like the old saying goes, you play with fire-your going to get burnt. And also what goes around, comes around.
2006-07-26 18:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, was it really about love for you? Ive slept with a married man before, its usually not about love its about something new. Its exciting to have sex with a new person, you learn new things,explore a new body, a new mind. Sometimes in a relationship your partner doesnt allow you to do certain things and they wont do certain things to do, so once in a while you have to venutre out. Just dont let it get too far, make sure that she is sure about what she is doing and not just confused. Ask yourself, "Are you ready to be the reason she leaves her husband?", "do you love her" , " If you were married, would you have cheated on your wife with her?" then after youve answered thouse questions, youll know if you should run away
2006-07-26 18:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by jamaicanstar1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care for this woman or is it a sex thing? I personally don't believe it is possible to be IN LOVE with two people at the same time.
2006-07-26 18:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by motleycfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have had better sense than to have an affair with a married woman in the first place. It can only lead to heartache for someone in this three way. Anyone who cheats is nothing more than a piece of crap anyway.
2006-07-26 18:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely run, run with all your might. Ignoring the adultery issue, let's just look at it from your perspective. Love yourself; don't cheapen yourself by being second in any relationship. If she is still married, her husband will always come first. Even if she doesn't respect her husband & marriage, you can. Don't get involved in their relationship. If she loves you or her husband, she will finish one relationship before moving on to the next one.
2006-07-26 18:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad thing. The answer to her question is yes. The two of you should ask her husband if he agrees. Yes, you should run away.
2006-07-26 18:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out if she was worth the effort. Sometimes people need to think of why married women do what they do just as married men. Anything you get too easily is usually not really worth it. If she already is talking of love you need to drop her because the future will only be troublesome.
2006-07-26 18:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is a bad thing. She's married! No you can't love two people like that. She just might want you for sex. I sounds to me like she just wants to hang on to you, and not leave her husband. You will just be her secound best. I would leave.
2006-07-26 18:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you don't want to be the cause of her divorce and she will do it to him she can do it to you not to mention the problems it can cause in court when her husband finds out or how he would react. People get killed for what you did. And even though she is the one married you are still committing adultery.
2006-07-26 18:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Priceless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you cant. If she betrays a person that she is committed to imagine what she is going to do with you. Only God now with how many PEOPLE she sleep with wash out for AIDS.
2006-07-26 18:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mamarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋