Other - Family & Relationships - 14 July 2006

i like this 17 year old. he works with my dad and comes over every night. the first night i met him i told my mom at soft-ball practice, that i that he was soooooooo gorgeous and that i really liked him. at first it was a fling, but as he kept comimg over,spending the night, and getting use to him, i think i've fallen in LOVE!!! we always have fun 2-gather and we get along really well.
but one night my dad found out we liked each other and he went buzonkers on the both of us...... as in: i was told " If i ever find yall doing anything as in kissing, hugging, touching, or anything like that, I will be very, very angry."......not so good.
then my dad told "MY MAN" that he would never trust him around us if he finds out he betrayed him as a freind and messes around with me.
now we still do stuff w/ each other just w/out any one knowing. ( we're going out) shhhhhhh!!!!

AM I A BAD GURL? I STILL LUV MY DAD
BUT I ALSO LUV "my man"!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*

2006-07-14 16:31:24 · 4 answers · asked by jolli_rancha03 1

2006-07-14 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by girly_girl 2

i hate the feeling of being the only one awake, and hearing that everyone else is asleep...and then i just stare at the dark walls and feel as though i can hear everything...anyone feel the same way or have any suggestions as to how i can overcome my fear?

2006-07-14 16:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by Jlizrochk 1

My daughter's father and i have been apart since I was 5mths prego. He got another girlfriend and thinks he is so much better than me. He is always calling me and calling me names and putting me down. His girlfriend called me the other day and told me I was a bad mother and that I can't take care of my daughter. Yes they have more money than I do but I am a great mother! How do I deal with him? I feel guilty if I don't answer the phone when he calls because he lives in another city and I don't want my daughter to grow up with out a father like I did, but he is not a nice or respectable person. I am confused someone help please!!!

2006-07-14 16:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by mamabite 1

I still can't forget it. It pops up now & then. We just had another fight about it because I don't trust him. He said he was just talking silly stupid talk. He was calling her every day anywhere from 2 to 5 times/day and there was a call to her at 2:19 am on xmas eve morning. He says it wasn't cheating, I say it was. I still can't let it go, I've tried but whenever I look at him I'm alway wondering what really went on and why was it so important to call this type of person (black stripper) for months. I was also told that he broke another girls heart. He told me that he talked to people when we had problems. But how do you break someones heart just from talking to them, unless he's making himself available to them. I get so confused because he tells me a totally different story and tries to put it back on me. He says "I didn't do anything". Confused about it all.

2006-07-14 16:20:51 · 19 answers · asked by jeep 2

she a fat , controling, she cheatting and lies. no good in bed

2006-07-14 16:19:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question is What is the love? If you can think you have a very great definations, Try! I don't want to hear only normal explaination like love is when you feel...special...2 people bla bla bla like that. Something that's like when I hear, I feel like Umm, that is it!
ps. Also, jerks, don't try to just post only for being tight, trying to give a dope sentense just to bla bla bla...that's dork.

2006-07-14 16:13:00 · 4 answers · asked by Rachell 2

2006-07-14 16:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by soniya k 1

I'm a sophomore in college, I met my boyfriend three days into my freshman year, we've been inseperable ever since. I want to do something very special for him. I don't want to spend a million dollars on a gift, and don't want anything sexual. I want to do something to show him that I really care for and love him. Something UNIQUE. Any ideas????

2006-07-14 15:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, b4 u answer think about this
babies....they are precious need to be taken care of
need nutrients, and need to be treated gently. they need to be warm out of the cold etc. etc. anyway it takes a lot of caring because they are so fragile. NOW HERES THE QUESTION
how the hell did cave men survive? dont you think they would treat the babies ruff or not feed them right maybe try to feed them adult food, smack em wit a club if they didnt stop crying. basically i am saying they didnt know $hit bout taking care of one. and dont give me that maternal instincs crap. SOme yes but i would think that the harsh elements would of claimed them or the predators or disease. HOW DID THEY DO IT?????? well however they did it im glad, cause now im here.

2006-07-14 15:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by internet_mack 2

My boyfriend (before he met me) use to put the internet dating ads over the internet. I dont kno if he ever met anyone, but months into our relationship I found out that he still had internet dating ads, some of which he put up WHILE we were together. He is a MAJOR FLIRT! And I put up an ad on the same site, pretending to be someone else. He sent a message (after I sent one to him) saying he was single and givin me his number. I confronted him about it, he said sorry and that he only did it because he was "bored" but i found NUMEROUS ads and profiles of his on the internet saying he was single and blah blah. His excuses are that he was bored, or he just wanted to see if he "still had it" I know he still has dating ads on the net and hes created several email addresses he thinks I don't know about. When I confront him about it, he goes BALISTIC!! I dont know why he keeps doin this, and I try to please him in every way possible. What could he be getting from this, that Im not giving him?

2006-07-14 15:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister's bf has cheated on her. He was the kind of guy who didnt like talking to anyone about his things. Now my sister doesnt know if she really loves him like she used to. She has gone out with this guy really late one day behind his back. He doesnt know anything about it bu he feels like she doesnt want him anymore. He talked to me about it one day that we all got together at his house. Im going out with his brother so they both expect me to tell them what she really feels. My sis has ratted me out once but i dont know if i should tell her bf or my bf??? Should i leave it or what??? I know now that he really is hurting about all this and my sis seems like she doesnt care. Now she has to turn off her phone when she is with her bf cuz that other guy and her text all the time. Advice??? i have tried talking to her but it has been 2 days and now she doesnt even tell me anything. Advice!!!!!! PLZ!!!

2006-07-14 15:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If one of the partners in a relationship feels the need to 'starighten you out' or 'break you in right' and hurts you in the process, do you continue with the relationship with that in the back of your mind, do you accept an apology or do you retaliate in the exact same manner as you were hurt in the first place?

Does it pay to continue with a relationship, hoping that everything will work itself out or is it time to end it and move on with both of yours lives?

And, what if that relationship was an engagement to get married, would you break it off or wait awhile?

And, if it was a marriage, would you get a divorce?

Think along the lines of third party intervention. A date which may or may not have ended the night in bed between your soul mate and that night on the town without you...now answer.

2006-07-14 15:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5

My fiancê is a totally sweet guy, and we seem to have no problems, but I found a bunch of pornographic pictures on his computer by accident today- I think it's normal for guys to look at it, but should I say anythig?? How much is too much, and should I be worried?

2006-07-14 15:13:19 · 13 answers · asked by who? 1

I have been talkin 2 my friend's cousin on the phone but I havent yet seen him.So it has really been just a blind date 4 us.My cousin AJ told me that he is FAT so did my friend DC.What should I do?

2006-07-14 15:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

you love someone SO much that you cant put it into words...

2006-07-14 15:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by TN 2

that u actually regularly hang out with.

2006-07-14 15:03:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 15:00:58 · 21 answers · asked by Cloudy 3

I have a 2 yr. old son and he likes to sleep with a teddy bear and me and my wife think it is just fine...but my wife's mom insists that he is to old to do such a thing and that we don't know how to take care of a child. she tells me i should be a man and yank it away from him. But my wife and i feel that he uses it for comfort and he a baby still.We have even told her that it is our decision and not hers.... We both feel that we would look like heartless snakes to be cruel to our son..........how do you feel......should we take it away

2006-07-14 14:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 14:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 2 yr. old son and he likes to sleep with a teddy bear and me and my wife think it is just fine...but my wife's mom insists that he is to old to do such a thing and that we don't know how to take care of a child. she tells me i should be a man and yank it away from him. But my wife and i feel that he uses it for comfort and he a baby still.We have even told her that it is our decision and not hers.... We both feel that we would look like heartless snakes to be cruel to our son..........how do you feel......should we take it away

2006-07-14 14:55:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the strongest one in my school. And many people; 435; said that they feared me. And due to that less and less people chose to sit with me, so i'm a loner by force. No one knows who i am, 2/3 people have heard legends of me, but wouldn't know me if they saw me. I do have a small group of people i talk to in classes, but we really don't say anything out of class or out of school.
But as i get older i hear more and more girls say things like...
"wow! he's such a cutie", and "i'd like to see him in bed with me tonight"(i know they're talking about me because they use my nickname, "ex") But when i ask those girls later of what they think of me, they always lie and say "who are you?" or "how do you know me, am i supposed to know you, or is this a pick-up line?"(then she walks away)
And i get in fights all the time, there are actually bets on people to fight me, and i get none of the money, i've heard of bets as high as $1000. I still haven't lost am entering my 3rd year

2006-07-14 14:54:31 · 1 answers · asked by dancarrasquillo@sbcglobal.net 2

2006-07-14 14:41:30 · 12 answers · asked by sekcii 1

my boyfriend is a 18th century mentality person. I'm a engineering student and want to make my own image in the world. but he wants to keep me as a house-wife. I've tried a lot to make him understand but nothing happend. but I love him very much and he also loves me madly....plz tell what sud I do?

2006-07-14 14:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by Arpi 2

My Little Monkey

My little fella
he kinda smella
he hides like a turtle
and might not even be furtile

He hangs to the right
and he won't come out at night
i named the little guy Jim
he really likes it when I stroke him

2006-07-14 14:27:10 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6

I am way to old for this! And my parents get mad at me for being afraid.

2006-07-14 14:25:55 · 17 answers · asked by TheFiveQuestions 2

proud to be STRAIGHT!!!!!!! anyone else here?

2006-07-14 14:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a cure for a bad day besides a crapload of drugs and alcohol? trying to find an alternative

2006-07-14 14:20:42 · 16 answers · asked by iluvjesus 1

ok, this is going to soud really bad but here is my story...

I am a transexual. I have been dating my dream man for 6 months. He thinks that i am a women still. I told him that i didn't want to be intimate until we where married (but i really didnt have the courage to tell him). Last weekend he asked me to marry him. How can i tell him that i am a man? I'm afraid that he is going to leave me. Should i wait until we are married so its harder for him to leave me? HELP!

2006-07-14 14:12:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

two people that lives together, can the father get custody

2006-07-14 14:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by www.butterflynewstravel.com 2