Okay, so basically this is what it is. My boyfriend and I have been in this relationship for a little more than five years. It's a long distance relationship. And we're both in love and happy, etc. The problem, however, is with me.
I'm not normally a jealous person. My boyfriend does these things like playing Halo long hours with his buddies or going out with friends, etc, and I don't mind one bit. I realize that we should both do stuff we like to do on our own and I'm fine with that. So I'm not possessive, or anything.
But I hate it when he so much as calls another woman attractive. I know it's human nature to find other people attractive even while you're with someone. But I'm still jealous. And I even know why I'm jealous: my own insecurities. I know he loves me and that he would never cheat on me. He's been asked out before and he's stayed loyal to me despite all that. Then what is my problem? This jealousy is ruining my life and I know it'll ruin our relationship one day.
2006-07-14
09:55:22
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