My bf constantly accuses me of seeing someone else. He says things like how is Your IM and Myspace treating you, im sure you have a lot of guys to call so you dont mind if i dont call. I cancelled my myspace acct after 2 weeks because i couldn't take it. Is this normal? The constant accusations?I'm thinkin maybe its because he spends a lot of time at work..
2006-07-14 09:20:55 · 24 answers · asked by Cassie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He may have been cheated on in his past relationships and he figures that you are going to do it too before too long. I did the same thing for a while and it takes a while to realize that she wasn't going to. You need to sit him down and explain that you like being with him, but, if he continues to make the accusations, then you will leave and find someone that will appreciate you more!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-07-14 09:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by luvsbjs_418 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm thinking that those that are soo quick to accuse others about doing things (i.e. your cheating on me) is probably the one doing it themselves.
Why else would he try to turn the spot light on you? To take the emphasis off of what he's doing! You sure he's actually 'working' alot?
Either that, or he's a little b*tch, and nothing worse than a man acting like a b*tch.
By cancelling you myspace, you catered to his possesive behavior. You have now enabled him to think it's okay to treat you like that.
It's not okay, dump his ***! It's only gonna get worse.
If I'm correct, and he's cheating on you, can I have the 10 points? ;p
2006-07-14 16:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the phrase, "He doth protest too much?" When a guy is that insecure, there's usually a reason for it. Maybe he projects his own weaknesses on you. OR He could just be that weak of a man. Relationships are built and grow only as much as trust is there and allows it to grow. He clearly doesn't trust you and without that, your relationship will wither on the vine. Dump him and find a man who will water your seed, not strangle it.
2006-07-14 16:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is possessive, controlling, suspicious, and obviously doesn't trust you. Once someone starts trying to control every area of your life, and playing mind games with you, it's time to cut him loose "see ya!". I've dated a couple of women like this, and that was the end of those relationships. You have a right to live life without someone accusing you of seeing someone else, and having to defend yourself. DUMP HIS A$$! Let me know!
2006-07-16 16:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has something to hide. a major sign someone is cheating on you is they accuse you of the same thing they are doing. and he spends alot of time at work? you might want to check up on him. and no its not normal
2006-07-14 16:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a wicked form of insecurity. He simply doesn't think he deserves you and is out to prove it. He needs to learn to believe in himself enough to feel he has nothing to be jealous of. Until then, or whenever he will continue to make the accusations and fits of insecurity. Unless your a big flirt, he has to figure this out on his own.
2006-07-14 16:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by badslaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever is up, bottom line is he's playing head games. Head games suck and never make for a sound long term relationship. Pull the trigger and move on to someone who makes you feel happy.
2006-07-14 16:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rare Indigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow my boyfriend was the exact same way.. i think its jealousy and them trying to control you because they dont want anyone to know you like they do
i dont even bother going on AIM and cancelled my myspace too
2006-07-14 16:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hink if he is questioning u then he is the 1 that is doing somethin. and a question for u do he have a myspace page if so check it out and sigh back on **** him and his accumtions
2006-07-14 16:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by princesspooh1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wen u luv sum1 vry dearly.....possessiveness is bound to b there...U want tht ur mate shud jus think of u as u do alwys.....n wen he/she talks to sum1 else...u feel insecure. Jus make him undrstand ..wid luv.. tht u only belong to him n only him.....bt do tht in a polite n luving manner n probably wid a kiss....He'll undrstand u surely.
2006-07-15 05:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bond007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋