Is he cheating?

Question

When hes accusing me of cheating and i know im not is he the one cheating?

Answer 1

Well, first of all when a guy accuses you of cheating and your not,then the first question that comes to mind is... is he acting funny? I mean is he behaving differently (even a little bit) than normal? Perhaps checking himself out in the mirror , putting on cologne, dressing up extra nice even though he isn't going anywhere special...and etc... if he is then he may be cheating. The one thing I have noticed, is men who cheat start up arguments and then rush out the door "pist off" and then come home really happy... So if he is doing any of that in addition to false accusations, then sorry but he may be cheating.

The other possibility could be that he is just insecure in the relationship, and thinks you are too good for him and worries that if you find a better catch you will leave him. If that is the case then, I recommend talking to him and letting him know that you are in a committed relationship and are happy.

Another thing, once I had a boyfriend I suspected who was cheating on me, and so when I was walking through the mall I saw this shirt that said " I know, That HE knows, That I know" and I bought it and wore it the next day and all day long he was freaking out about the shirt, and that's when I said.. "Look, dear I know...you don't have to hide it anymore, just be honest" ....and he confessed. So if your guy is an over all honest guy...he may just confess if you kinda spook him out.

Answer 2

This is one sticky situation. I would say that 90% of the time yes, he is cheating if he is accusing you of doing it. However, in every relationship, it is very important to trust your partner. TRUST and COMMUNICATION are very essential if you want the relationship t work. What you have to decide is what you want to do with his accusations, and if you want to keep putting up with him accusing you of cheating. If you are doing something that will cause him to become suspicious, you may want reevaluate your situation. It's hard but at some point you will have to decide to stay or go. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

I have accused people of cheating when I wasn't but I think when it comes to guys that is how it works. Whenever I have accused a guy all his male friends usually give him the advise that if I'm accusing him it means I am doing. They were wrong of course but it does tell you how they think. Its possible he just suspects you are but I would definitely investigate.

Answer 4

Sometimes it means that he is trying to defelct guilt from himself onto you. He could be insecure about your relationship but usually with younger guys when they accuse their girlfriend of cheating it is most likely because he is up to no good and this is a sneaky way for him to absolve himself. I don't mean to be cynical by saying that. If you are in a good secure relationship you would have good communication and be able to talk about your insecurites with each other. If you are being faithful, good for you. I would talk to him about it and ask why he is feeling this way. If he gets defensive, well, then you know that you can do better.

Answer 5

not always. I was always accusing my first wife of cheating, and I never did on her, but after the divorce, found out that 99% of the time I was right

Answer 6

Usually yes, that or he has some seriouse issues that need to be dealt with anyway! His own guilt it eating him alive, and it would make his life so much easier if you were cheating too, then he wouldn't be the bad guy.

Answer 7

He might have a guilty concense. But you know you are not cheating, if he can't be secure enough to trust you, you deserve better. Life is too short to spend it on someone who doesn't appreciate you.

Answer 8

Very well could be, he's projecting onto you....unless you are doing things that could be giving him the idea that you are cheating, but if everything is normal then there is something wrong here

Answer 9

Most likely he is NOT cheating on you...How old is this guy? Many young guys are insecure. Have you simply just asked him if he is? You girls mature a lot quicker than us guys. If it turns out that he is, let me know, I'll come by and kick his butt for you:-)

Answer 10

My boyfriend Romona cheating on me what to do he used to love me and now he is going with another girl Katherina. I feel very sad and broken hearted. I feel like crying thinking about relationship god knows.Life sucks.I wish i could like new hot blond guy to be my new boyfriend. What can a brown headed fr-eek like me do.