I'm just going to get straight to the point. Sometimes my bf won't call or talk to me at all for 3 days to a week and sometimes he'll say theat he's going to come to see me and he doesn't and ends up going out with his friends or something like that and won't even call to let me know. I've tried telling him that when he does stuff like that it really upsets me and I KNOW that he doesn't mean to upset me. He just seems to have absolutly no common sense in a relationship and I really don't want to leave him and I know i'll get plenty of people telling me to break up with him. I'm just not sure that's what I should do.. As you can see I could use some advice.
2006-07-14 09:31:00 · 15 answers · asked by Cappuccino Queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl,
i'll make it real simple try to talk to him if he does the same thing then just leave him! You deserve better much better. You need someone who understands your feelings. Not just some guy who will take you for granted. I hope I helped!
P.S. Hope it works out!
2006-07-14 09:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by rockergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me sweetie, his problem is not common sense. He just has higher priorities than you right now. So you have two options
1) Wait around until you may or may not move up on his priority list
2) Find some guy that will treat you like a Queen!! Get it Queen??? haha.....
2006-07-14 16:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not the common sense part, it`s that he is inconsiderate, and apparently his friends or what he is doing is more important than you. one thing you didn't`t say how long you all been together. it just sounds like your there when he wants you to be there. he says he will be over so you will quit calling him at least for the time being. truthfully, you need to find out how much you really mean to him, and or DUMP HIM. it sounds like you deserve better! good luck
2006-07-14 16:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y are you putting up with that?? thats too much of a headache..you are far too young to be worried about things like that. im telling you..he wants all that space he might as well be single..that doesnt make scence..thats not a relationship where you talk to your girlfriend once a week..i dont approve of that either and maybe thats why me and my ex broke up ebcause i wanted 2 much from the relationship i expected to much from him.i wanted2 hear from him everyday..i wanted to be with him..i wanted sooo much of his attention and guys dont like that and i see where i went wrong..but guys think thats okay for not to hear from there girl for a week..thats not healthy relationship..matter a fact thats not a relationship period..you deserve better..obviously he doesnt want the same things you want..hes not on the same page..so drop that looser and find someone thats worth your while and that wants to spend time with you and that wants to talk to you and give you more attention then once a week or every blue moon you deserve better baby girl. break up with him!
2006-07-14 17:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I agree w/ric_ozz he just is not into you. You check out the book - "He's Just Not That Into You" ... if you think people will tell you to break up with him, then chances are you already know that what he is doing isnt right and you need to break up with him.
2006-07-14 16:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have it ever occured to you that these are the very reasons you find him attractive?
these actions make him seem challenging, unpredictable, etc which are some qualities that women find attrative.
if that is true than you have to weigh all these factors and make a decision.
the scary part may be he knows you find these actions attractive and is purposely doing them
2006-07-14 16:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like spending time with you then he is NOT interested in you. He has ignored your concerns. Without communication and compromise you have nothing
2006-07-14 16:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach him how to treat you... You let him get away with it and he'll keep doing it. He knows what he's doing..... unless you guys are 12.
2006-07-14 16:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should give him a taste of his own medicine and just see if he likes it.
2006-07-14 16:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by hoop_102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i look like you i would need a lot of help in finding someone clean up the way you look
2006-07-14 16:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋