If one of the partners in a relationship feels the need to 'starighten you out' or 'break you in right' and hurts you in the process, do you continue with the relationship with that in the back of your mind, do you accept an apology or do you retaliate in the exact same manner as you were hurt in the first place?
Does it pay to continue with a relationship, hoping that everything will work itself out or is it time to end it and move on with both of yours lives?
And, what if that relationship was an engagement to get married, would you break it off or wait awhile?
And, if it was a marriage, would you get a divorce?
Think along the lines of third party intervention. A date which may or may not have ended the night in bed between your soul mate and that night on the town without you...now answer.
2006-07-14 15:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why would you continue to be abused by someone who just laughs at your pain??
2006-07-14 15:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship, partners will see things differently.No two people think exactly alike.Conflict is inevitable; and feelings will get hurt.Its how you deal with the conflict that determines what happens to the relationship
Talk over your feelings with each other.Communication is required to keep a healthy relationship
.If you love the person that hurts you, you will forgive them.Forgiveness is part of love.If you retaliate, then you really don't love that person.In that case, its time to end the relationship.
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Remember we are all human and we hurt the people we love the most .I think that we do that because we know they will be most forgiving to us.
Consider your partners feelings...will what I say or do hurt them? what is my reason for saying or doing this? Will it benefit them? Will it be constructive or destructive?
2006-07-15 01:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Carrying a grudge is like a run in a stocking - it can only get worse. Forgiveness is the answer."
"Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye. "
"You'll learn more about a road by traveling it, than by consulting all the maps in the world"
2006-07-18 21:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Borinquena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who really loves you will not hurt you and laugh. They would apologize sincerely, maybe even with a poem, but definately from their heart.
2006-07-15 02:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by fasn8n_67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one who loves you is going to hurt you and laugh. Kick them to the curb.... now!
2006-07-19 19:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by sooo_bad2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that yall should try to work things out
2006-07-14 22:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋