I still can't forget it. It pops up now & then. We just had another fight about it because I don't trust him. He said he was just talking silly stupid talk. He was calling her every day anywhere from 2 to 5 times/day and there was a call to her at 2:19 am on xmas eve morning. He says it wasn't cheating, I say it was. I still can't let it go, I've tried but whenever I look at him I'm alway wondering what really went on and why was it so important to call this type of person (black stripper) for months. I was also told that he broke another girls heart. He told me that he talked to people when we had problems. But how do you break someones heart just from talking to them, unless he's making himself available to them. I get so confused because he tells me a totally different story and tries to put it back on me. He says "I didn't do anything". Confused about it all.
2006-07-14 16:20:51 · 19 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Guess what? He's cheating!!! If not in the physical sense, definitely in the emotional sense. He's toying with another woman's mind. I feel like this, if he can't call this girl while you're around, he's not up to anything good. Anything he does that has to be a secret from you means he's guilty of something. Your trust has definitely been betrayed and I don't think getting it back will be good for your emotions or self-esteem. You'll just continue to search for what he's doing wrong all the while he'll be getting better at deceiving you. Leave him.
2006-07-14 16:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by want2know 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You need to talk to him and explain to him that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. Even though he might not be sleeping with the girl he is still having an emotional relationship with her and opening himself up (and her too) to having feelings that are more than just friend feelings.
After you explain how he cheated on you maybe he will understand. You should certainly make it clear that you deserve his full attention and he shouldn't be seeking out other women to talk to - because he has you. Having female friends is fine - but going further is a relationship no-no.
You also need to forgive him 100% and leave the past in the past if you want your relationship to work. Work it out with him, forgive him, and let it go.
2006-07-14 16:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be hard to forget and once trust is broken you will always have doubt....it sucks.
I hate to say it but it sounds like he hasn't finished his days as a player. He needs to feel that rush from chasing girls whether or not anything comes out of it. To him it probably seems harmless but if it bothers you don't torture yourself by staying involved with him. Put some disatnce between yourself and your BF.
Maybe find someone you can trust. Life is too short to live it in misery.
2006-07-14 16:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in spite of despite in case you adore him or no longer, you recognize you won't have the ability to believe him which makes a destiny with him a foul circulate. Now in case you're into various "drama" on your life, and prefer liars and cheaters, then he's a keeper. Cheaters and liars are solid for no longer something yet heartbreak, and making you an emotional wreck! Do the dazzling factor and meet somebody who's interested in you in straightforward terms. provide your self some credit, set your standards larger, and understand which you're able to do plenty greater effective. And sure, you will detect somebody new which you would be able to stroll into love with, and could probable furnish help to get previous your cutting-edge concern. stop dropping a while "busting him" and get on with your life!
2016-10-07 22:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly talk to him. Ask him if he wants to be a part of your life anymore, if he says yes give him another shot but make sure he understands that it will take awhile to earn back ur trust. If he says he doesn't know (or just plain no), let him go. If he doen't know if he wants to be a part of your life then why should you trust him w/ ur heart??? Besides he should understand that calling another girl 2 to 5 times a day is just bad.
2006-07-14 16:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a man like that and he was cheating. If he needs to be calling other girls then he is not into you and has no respect for you. Please get out before youare hurting for a long time and then have to deal with a broken heart for even longer. It is better just to get over him now. Why would he be calling someone else and not you??
2006-07-14 16:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by mamabite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If you can't trust him anymore, then it would be better it would be time for you to move on, otherwise you would will always think about it. Take care don't over stress yourself on this, otherwise you might get sick from this, in the long run.. Peace be with you...
2006-07-14 16:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Arun M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tries to put it back on you because he feels guilty. there's more to this than what he's telling you. how would he like it if you were talking to a male stripper or something equally wrong? dump his lame ***
2006-07-14 16:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on with your life. He's not the only lying Adam left on planet earth. He is just waiting for you to dump him I'm sure.
2006-07-14 16:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the key to love withuot trust there can be no true love,honour thy love live happy for enternity,break up with him,unless you like conflicks to argue ,whats? he doing now who is he doing now ?all the time lots of energy wasted on someone you dont trust,spend the time and energy best spent on someone worth it
2006-07-14 16:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋