Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2006

And NO I am not a pervert Im a married man and been searching this answer for a long time without luck to pleasure my wife more better.

2006-06-11 07:53:31 · 31 answers · asked by ? 4

He is/was my husband and I desperately need to contact him. He is a cook and in his 40's. He was living in Naples, FL. He is originally from NJ. He also was living in NY for awhile. Any help locating him would be appreciated

2006-06-11 07:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by sheila m 1

2006-06-11 07:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok 8 year relationship 3 kids on and off alot of problems and did hurt each other but never cheated on each other. but always friends and still click when we talk but i dont know what she thinks, she left me 4 month ago as it did get to bad, i went through all the stages depression ect we got all the issues out now and the anger from both us is over and we both accept a form of responsibilitie, anyways we have went from not talking to getting along great but she says just as friends. now the other night she said to me when talking about getting back together -
"i dont want no one else"
"i just dont want a relationship right now"
"if i did you would be a prioritie and top of the list"
"also i am not making no promises"
question looking at the situation what do you think?
bear in mind she speaks to me at her house but not on msn or anything like that and wont go anywere with me or the kids.
am i been a fool to keep hanging on and just give her time?i love her so much,and will wait

2006-06-11 07:41:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-11 07:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by kellikramer42 1

a very important question. A girl of 18 years can live a happy life with 40 years of a man, can she get the same enjoyment as 18 years of boy, or the difference does not matter, or a boy of 18 years can get the same enjoyment with 40 years old lady

2006-06-11 07:34:23 · 10 answers · asked by Just For Me 1

2006-06-11 07:25:41 · 21 answers · asked by salcsan 3

i want to ask to all of you that is a newly married girl will be happy with forepaly by thier husband before having intercourse with each other

2006-06-11 07:24:13 · 6 answers · asked by Just For Me 1

I am not married nor engaged but I have many female friends whoa re married or engaged. Most of them cheat saying "They married their husband because basically he is a sucker that provides them with money, shelter and takes care of the kids" and they have another man on the side that gives them great sex/emotional needs, etc etc. So do most of you ladies do the same thing? Marry some sap to father your kids and earn money while you have another guy on the side? I'm not passing judgement, I could care less whether someone cheats or not. Just curious.

2006-06-11 07:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-11 07:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by ray 5

a woman should look pretty to attract her husband

2006-06-11 07:12:37 · 6 answers · asked by Just For Me 1

i'm 19, he's 27. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. we've been planning to get married for 3-1/2 years. the problem is i used to be in love with him, but now i haven't felt anything for him for almost 2yrs. we dont have sex cuz i dont like it. max 1 every 2months. he says its ok n when we're married we dont have to have sex. im not frigid i just dont feel anything for him so its hard to pretend. would we work out? we r very comfortable wit eachother. what shud i do?

2006-06-11 07:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by slashaholic 1

2006-06-11 07:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by strawberrysudha 2

What does it mean when you dream of your husband sleeping with other weman more than once.

2006-06-11 06:42:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not married nor am I dating. I tend to stick to one night stands. But it seems alot of women here whine because some guy screwed them over so now they want to bash every guy on the planet thinking that they are cheating pigs. When in fact women are just as bad and 99.99999% are just as selfish and inconsiderate. So I ask, Why do women cheat when they have a good man in their lives?

2006-06-11 06:37:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-11 06:23:58 · 42 answers · asked by black w 1

I am 30 and in a 5-year marriage with a great man. He's my first and only lover and we've shared many happy times. We're best friends. Yet for years, this is all we've been to each other. He's content with the situation and I'm not. I want to be a wife, a sex object and mother--not just a friend.

Sex has always been hard for us and we've endured long periods of absinence. He's a workaholic, thriving on intellectual pursuits while I've come to crave more physical and emotional contact. I want travel, adventure, and friends; he's a homebody with no friends other than me. I've begun to want kids but he is adamantly against them, even the thought of them.

So many differences and hurt feelings. I love him and feel guilty for considering divorce. He makes me feel like I'm his world, and that without me he'll break. That kills me, but I'm afraid I'm losing myself. We've been trying to fix things for 7 months yet I don't think he gets it.

Any suggestions as to what I might do?

2006-06-11 06:18:51 · 19 answers · asked by Aura 1

Or what people would call and stereotype as a geek?

2006-06-11 06:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watched a movie this weekend, and in the first scene a man comes home to his gorgeous home, gorgeous wife, and two gorgeous girls. The girls ran to him saying 'daddy, daddy, daddy'. Smiling from ear to ear, he kissed his kids and his wife. He seemed pretty happy, but the next scene showed the man looking off into space. He then hired a private investigator to find an old girlfriend. He lied to his wife and then went to go visit this (also married) woman.

Are men ever satisfied with what they have?

2006-06-11 06:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by smewth-e 2

so here it is, my husband of 3yrs, and we have been together for 5yrs is begeinning to seem like he is predjudice towards my race im not sure but i think its the people he works with that made him feel ashamed of me. i am half spanish and half caucasion but look much more spanish than anything and he is nearly the same race but looks much more caucasion. this is how it all began, my husband asked if i would like to go to a barbeque where he works and i said that i dont think his boss cares for me much even though we had never spoke just brief encounters, his responce was maybe he thinks your mexican and even if i was what is wrong with that! a few days later i told him i might want to get a job at trader joes, his responce was you dont want to work there, their predjudice the next day we were talking about trader joes and he said he would like to be a manager there. all this just made me think so trader joes is good enough for him but not for me cause he thinks i look mexican

2006-06-11 06:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

Do you think some women should wear a good chastity belt? For instance:

Under 18s on first dates
Under 18s on dates
Women out of the house at night (rape protection)
Newly married Wives before and for a while after the ceremony

2006-06-11 06:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by Monica 2

* why divorce
* status of a divorced woman
*Rights & responsibilities

2006-06-11 05:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know how much he wants to overcome this, but he can't seem to sleigh his latenight binging demons...even when he is not hungry. I know how much he starts to hate himself...we are so close and so in love...but the worse it gets, the more he keeps it all locked up. In result, he starts not liking himself, won't want to go anywhere, do anything except stay home and eat (he is a great cook) and watch tv. Going on dates is hard for us b/c he gets so stressed out in public. I have tried various forms of helping him; everything from tough love to blind support of his choices to setting a good example to asking him to pray with our preacher. I know what a fight this is for him...What is my role in helping him be who he wants to be? I am so in love with him...but how can I not get frustrated at the life I have had to quit living (dates, nights out, outdoor activities, etc) b/c he is trying to hide? (And yes, I have tried going out all on my own. It just makes him feel worse)

2006-06-11 05:27:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many men know they have a good thing but takes the chance of destroying their relationship. Why do they think it is nothing when they do it and we should automatically forgive them but if it was the other way around they call it quits? Should a woman completely trust him again or what should she do? One thing is that she truly loves her husband and cherishes her relationship with him but moreso with God, but how can she be at peace when she knows that there is a chance it may happen again. What has happened to real love, honesty, and loyalty?

2006-06-11 05:10:54 · 24 answers · asked by Sistawhowannaknow 1

2006-06-11 05:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by brea27 1

I was 17 when I married my husband. I love him very much. I have not been the best wife and I don't think that he has done his best. He joined the military we moved to Europe and had to be each others best friends. I feel like I missed out on being young and doing things that young people do I am 22 now and want to leave him to try new thngs get a job, make my own money take care of myself. We filled for divorce I still need him in my life he says we will still be friends but I do not know. what would you do move on and try something new or stay with what is safe?

2006-06-11 05:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by busybuzzbee2000 1

Here is the story. Last night I was at the wedding of my best friend's little brother, we'll call him Adam. Adam got married, and as one would imagine, his whole family was there. His mother, father, brother, sister, etc etc. Well, during the course of the night, I was spending time talking with all of his family members as we drank and made merry. At one point, Adam's little sister's fiance, Ralph, came over to talk to me. He confided in me that just last weekend, he had cheated on Adam's little sister (she's 25), and that she didn't know about it.

As a long time friend of the family, I'm trapped with this information. My loyalty to the family is both the reason I feel I SHOULD tell them what Ralph has done, and also the reason I SHOULDN'T, in that I don't want to ruin an engagement. I feel I should say something though...even though Ralph told me of his cheating in the strictest of confidence.

What would you do?

2006-06-11 04:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. O'Clock 4

I don’t know what to do. Hubby is sick and can’t continue to DO IT as much as he used to. He has back trouble and can’t physically handle me anymore.

I can’t think straight. I can’t get motivated to do anything. I spend hours fantasizing, and get nothing else done. I can't hold a job. I'm thinking about things I shouldn't.

We have been together for many years and I will NOT cheat on him or leave him.

So the only conclusion I can see is to find a drug or something that will keep me from WANTING sex! Can anyone help me!

2006-06-11 04:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-11 04:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by Rick 3

2006-06-11 04:26:06 · 20 answers · asked by rick s 2