i think my husband is predjudice towards me, what should i do ??

Question

so here it is, my husband of 3yrs, and we have been together for 5yrs is begeinning to seem like he is predjudice towards my race im not sure but i think its the people he works with that made him feel ashamed of me. i am half spanish and half caucasion but look much more spanish than anything and he is nearly the same race but looks much more caucasion. this is how it all began, my husband asked if i would like to go to a barbeque where he works and i said that i dont think his boss cares for me much even though we had never spoke just brief encounters, his responce was maybe he thinks your mexican and even if i was what is wrong with that! a few days later i told him i might want to get a job at trader joes, his responce was you dont want to work there, their predjudice the next day we were talking about trader joes and he said he would like to be a manager there. all this just made me think so trader joes is good enough for him but not for me cause he thinks i look mexican

Answer 1

Have you talked to him about this? Tell him he's hurting you with his careless remarks and its damaging your relationship. If that attitude is comming from his workplace, maybe he needs to start looking for a new job....

Answer 2

There are certainly no similarities between the two. Mr. Bennett is intellectually minded, dislikes materialism, and is greater attracted to his daughters' happiness than with their marriages. Mrs. Bennett has "ephemeral concerns" (stuff that may not be counted interior of each and every week from happening, like who Bingley danced with one night) and thinks of no longer something yet making good suits for her daughters. She's have been given an fairly primitive recommendations and, what's worse, she would not care.

Answer 3

I think he is too. I would sit down and have a very serious talk with him. Ask him what his problem is. Tell him how umcomfortable hi attitude is making you. I wish you the best.

Answer 4

Your husband married you knowing all this so he should not feel that way. Maybe you are wrong about his feelings and need to discuss this with him instead of jumping to conclusions. Sometimes our mind can get carried away with us. Give him a chance to talk about this.....