Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2006

but y does he not have anything to do with his beautiful wife, when she needs only him?

2006-06-11 20:14:15 · 3 answers · asked by smiles 1

My husband and I have been married for 15 years.
We are both in our thirtys . Is there something in the air?
Sudden full moons often? WHAT GIVES.
We have been through good times and bad times.
We have been through seperations and survived them.
We were best friends during seperations and after.
We are usually happy go lucky people.
But here lately, all we seem to do is argue.
Its like we cant see eye to eye on anything.
He is always upset and blames me for every argument.
He speaks to me unkind often now and no matter how much
I ask him not to speak to me in that tone , he will say
I AM NOT SPEAKING TO YOU IN A TONE (in a tone).
I dont believe in Divorce and have beautiful children.
I dont want to run but at the same time, I just cannot live
the rest of my life with this kind of relationship.
I dont understand whats going on all of a sudden.
Its been for about a year now . WHAT CAN I DO?

2006-06-11 20:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get so dirty with my husband of 4 yrs. I have raw animal s-e-x- on my mind. He says he does to. But when we're together in the moment, it is dull. Of course I don't tell him to his face, but he is a boring lover and I've done everything under the sun to fulfill any desires. I talk filth, I give him plenty of chances to say anything. I love him, but why does he have to be so shy? I feel so bad that he can't be comfortable with me. Is it maybe that he's just a quiet lover? (Plenty of times, but not during intimacy, he tells me he loves me). I can deal with that if someone relates to this in a positive way.

2006-06-11 19:47:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

My bf (of 3 yrs) & I are breaking up because of porn. 1 1/2 year ago I found porn on his pc. I found it upsetting because our sex life was lacking, and as soon as I saw porn I connected one with the other. My bf said that the not enough sex is also my fault cause I dont initiate enough.So I did but after I was turned down several times (not consec) I didnt want to initiate anymore. I was afraid of being turned down. The porn was hurting me so much that I always managed to bring it up in arguments. Finally one day I told him to stop or i want to breakup. Although he didn't see any wrongdoing he said he was going to stop. Just recently i needed to use his pc and a file with porn just poped up as soon as the pc was turned on. I saw porn on his new pc and I flipped. He said he only said he would stop to shut me up or to save me from myself. My bf says that all his friends and all guys look at porn and he is not doing anything wrong. I'm ruining the relationship over nothing. Pls advise.

2006-06-11 19:26:04 · 31 answers · asked by Joanna 2

My best friend is 40 yrs. old & she is really pretty & about every 3-4 months she has an attraction for a different guy. She is married. Shes been married twice. Shes never cheated but why does she keep having "crushes" on other guys? She never acts on it but she tells me every time. I never know what to say to her.

2006-06-11 19:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5

Being in a relationship, should you get married just because you (woman point of view) or because your girlfriend (male point of view) is pregnant.

2006-06-11 19:14:08 · 13 answers · asked by Tarabeara 4

2006-06-11 19:10:06 · 5 answers · asked by mohd 2

I feel so lucky. I have a man with a nice bod, good in bed, and loves ALL of me.

2006-06-11 19:07:04 · 5 answers · asked by Billy 1

2006-06-11 19:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by shan-la 1

i have been with my husband for 4 yrz but we recently just got married though. my husband likes to watch porn even though he says it doesnt really do nething for him. he says it excites him when i watch it with him but yet when i am not at the house he sneaks around and watches it and the whole thing makes me feel so un attractive and he knows this but still does this ****. he knows i have low self esteem but he still does the same thing. he even went as low as to buy a pay per view adult movie just to see if i was watchin him to see if i really trusted him with not watchin that stuff and so i was watchin him cuz he sounded like he was up to somethin and not even 3 minutes later i watched got suspicious at wat he was fixin to watch and then i seen it then he said the only reason why he turned it on there was to see if i was watchin to see if i really trusted him and so he got mad cuz i watchd him cuz he said since i watched him i didnt trust him so now he is mad at me wat should i do

2006-06-11 19:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by sweet29053 2

stress is reduced?yea i knwo its werid but just curious i what people think

2006-06-11 18:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do u know if your mans cheating on you i need to know

2006-06-11 18:55:47 · 20 answers · asked by susan b 1

Would you get mad at your wife if she wanted to have sex everyday and do all kinds of different things with you?LIke wake you up with a bj ?my husband has been very weird lately when i try to do that yea he works that night shift and he stays up a lil when he gets home and helps with the baby.but i like to do special things for him like what i mentioned before cause i know he loves it but lately he hasnt been really allowing me to he lays on his stomach so i cant do it and then if i try he pushes me away ,but trys not to make it obivous he just says im tired let me be.but normally i coul ddo it even if he was real tired and he wouldnt lay on his stomach .what could be going on i just dont get him

2006-06-11 18:44:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I miss him so much and he won't be back till July and he has been gone since March my son cries for him everyday he is only two years old. When my husband gets back we have about 4 weeks till we move and i am scared we are going to Germany for Two years i mean we are going to a whole different country and then having to take our son will be even harder i am scared because i am not sure what to expect!! I need Advice??

2006-06-11 18:38:40 · 37 answers · asked by lovinDIJ 1

he has been for work and he doesn't return till tom...night is so long...i want him next to me..to hug and sleep

2006-06-11 18:18:25 · 9 answers · asked by kutti 1

2006-06-11 18:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by ali133gh 1

2006-06-11 18:09:41 · 23 answers · asked by shan-la 1

He don't spend that much time with me, he yells at me everytime I get on his e-mail and try to figure a way that he can not get back on the porn sights, lesbian sights, and the dating sights. Today I found a picture he printed off xxx-something-lesbian.com so I just threw it in the trash. And allday today I got on his e-mail and went to all his e-mails that had something to do with dating, porn, and lesbians and I wrote all the "sights" down and I blocked them all.

2006-06-11 17:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by boray 1

2006-06-11 17:46:30 · 15 answers · asked by smackykill 1

are they cheating on you, or are they just plain hidding something. This person also earses the history on this computer...He never wants to talk about it, it always becomes a big problem when you ask a question about the site or anything else to do with this computer...How can I know forsure what he is doing all the time on here.. computer is before hot wife.. Is he stupid,for not loving her and loving the computer instead.. What can I do.. everytime you ask him a question he gets upset about it like the other time in our life when bad things happened in our relationship..I think he is trying to hide something but I can't be sure, but most of the signs are there.. I am very lonly in my heart and in my bed, this has gotten really bad in the last 6 months. could someone help me..LostandLonely

2006-06-11 17:36:29 · 14 answers · asked by smiles 1

I'm engaged with a man (who I obviously love very much) and he is about to enlist into the Air Force. Does the military recognize this so that I could live on base with him when he leaves? I truly do not want to be seperated while he serves his country.

2006-06-11 17:32:34 · 8 answers · asked by Katariana 1

2006-06-11 17:28:42 · 15 answers · asked by Just Me 4

so that my husband will always loves me

2006-06-11 17:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by rekha c 3

17 years old and all i want more than anything is to be married and have kids......i just want my OWn life, my OWN family.....i hate depending on others. My true ambition is just having my own family.......ive tried doing the whole teenage thing.......partying, "hanging" w/ friends my age......it just doesnt do it for me....all of my friends are married and have families......they hate it but thats what i want.........am i normal????Anyone else like me?
Advice would be greatly appreicated~
Thanks~

Additional Details

1 second ago
ok everyone........i didnt say that i wanted to have kids now......no im not an idiot.............i was just wondering if it was normal to feel like this at this age


by the way my friends arent my age and they DO have an education

TY!

I am asking this question again apparently some ppl were confused(not blaming yall) & RUDE!

i am planing on getting an education and going to college also BEFORE i ever start a family~im not selfish....

2006-06-11 17:15:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-11 17:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by mutiger6405 2

My now Ex-husband left me on Jan. 21 of this year, my Divorce became final on May 8, of this year. I loved this man dearly, but because he had hurt me so much in the past( use to be vary abusive, and controlling....and is an alcoholic,drug abuser...oh, and had left me several times before) I didn't take him back when he asked me to back in March. Now I regret that decision some, because I really loved this man, and had never planed on getting a divorce ( I didn't even have a lawyer, he filed). Now I am divorced, and trying to start over again (I have even met some one)but I worrie that I may not be over my Ex completly yet, I just need to know if the pain of losing him will go away soon, if I will stop crying ever time I think of him, and our life together. Please I need some help I don't want to mess up my new relationship ( this guy is a great guy, and I can see a future with him), but first I have to let go of my past, I know. Thanks for any help.

2006-06-11 17:06:41 · 10 answers · asked by brandy 2

2006-06-11 17:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by cedykeman1 6

Did she lie and tell you she misscarried? Could you ever forgive her?

2006-06-11 16:54:14 · 3 answers · asked by LadyRedWild 3

If your parents were to say that your fiance (whome you live with) is not welcome at their house simply because she didn't obey their orders and controlling, what would you do?

A) Tell your parents that if your fiance isn't welcome, you arent neither
B) Continue going to visit them (of course, without your fiance)
C) Break up with your fiance to make your parents happy

Thank you!!!

2006-06-11 16:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Itsme... 2

2006-06-11 16:38:20 · 17 answers · asked by LINDA H 1