2006-06-11 18:09:41 · 23 answers · asked by shan-la 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-11 18:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by alecbest1 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Normal for some is abnormal for others.
Everyone is unique.
When you're ready for another relationship you'll know, although there's no harm in seeing someone just for the fun of it.
I guess it all depends on how long you were seperated before divorce, and to whether the divorce was mutual, or who initiated it and on what terms.
I'd worry about rushing into another relationship too soon, before the feelings of the past relationship have been resolved.
You don't want to ruin a good thing by past feelings coming back into the picture.
Good luck.
2006-06-11 18:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong time. Each person and situation is different. It could be that the marriage has actually been "over" for a long time. Whatever the situation, you are the one that it ultimately affects. If you like having someone around, then start dating. If someone good comes around, then go for it! If nothing seems to happen as quick as you might think, take some time... go out with friends, and someone might just fall into your lap! :-) Do what makes YOU happy!
2006-06-11 19:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I don't think it is a good idea for you to start looking for someone else because you are not emotionally ready to move on. You will not only hurt yourself, but might end up hurting another person. Take your time to get your thoughts and feelings together. You will see that this will help you prepare yourself for a new relationship that will come along. Give yourself time to find yourself and what you want out of life and new relationship. Sometimes we tend to believe that we are ready to move on, but the truth is that we are not and we only want to find someone else becasue we need someone else to fill in the empty space that, that person we left behind left inside our hearts.
2006-06-11 18:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE IT'S NORMAL. I THINK THAT USUALLY YOU NEED SOMETIME TO GET OVER IT, BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU'RE READY NOW, THEN JUST TAKE IT SLOW. NEVER FORGET WHY YOU ARE NOW A DIVORCEE. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES. BECAUSE IT MAY NOT HAVE BEEN YOU ASKING FOR THE DIVORCE, BUT YOU HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT, BE IT THAT YOU WERE THE PERFECT WIFE AND LET HIM WALK ALL OVER YOU. WELL YOU WERE PARTLY TO BLAME CUZ YOU LET HIM WALK ALL OVER YOU.
NOW IF YOU DID SOMETHING BAD IN THE RELATIONSHIP WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING RIGHT. OKAY, SO LIVE AND LEARN. DATE ALL KINDS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE. DON'T BE IN A HURRY TO GET MARRIED AGAIN.
THERE'S NO TIME LIMIT HERE. YOU CAN DATE AND HAVE A GOOD TIME, GET TO KNOW NEW PEOPLE AND THEN MAYBE ONE DAY GET REMARRIED IF YOU WISH.
GOOD LUCK IN YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS OKAY. TAKE CARE.
2006-06-11 18:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I heard a saying that "the quickest way to get over someone is to get under someone". Whether that is actually good advice is questionable. People are so afraid to be alone that they will go from bad relationship to bad relationship and wonder why things always go badly. My opinion is that it is better to take some time to reflect on things and get to know oneself again. And doing that one might actually find out why their relationship(s) failed in the first place.
2006-06-11 18:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. But it would be best if you gave yourself time to heal from the divorce. Your on the rebound and it would be easy to get involved with the wrong person again.
2006-06-11 18:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone as in dating....yes. If you are looking for a relationship or remarriage then I would suggest that you take the time to find out what went wrong with your marriage before you end up repeating it in another.
2006-06-11 18:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going through a divorce now .
she left me in February for another man.
I haven't started looking and may not look.
i am madly in love with the soon to be ex..
i am the one who filed...thought she would come back ;(
2006-06-12 00:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by glennmettlen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok to look for some eles a copule weeks after you get divorce
2006-06-11 18:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by kitty cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be on the rebound big time.
And the only thing you would have to talk about is your divorce.
Give it a little time.
2006-06-11 18:16:17 · answer #11 · answered by Muinghan Life During Wartime 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋