i have been with my husband for 4 yrz but we recently just got married though. my husband likes to watch porn even though he says it doesnt really do nething for him. he says it excites him when i watch it with him but yet when i am not at the house he sneaks around and watches it and the whole thing makes me feel so un attractive and he knows this but still does this ****. he knows i have low self esteem but he still does the same thing. he even went as low as to buy a pay per view adult movie just to see if i was watchin him to see if i really trusted him with not watchin that stuff and so i was watchin him cuz he sounded like he was up to somethin and not even 3 minutes later i watched got suspicious at wat he was fixin to watch and then i seen it then he said the only reason why he turned it on there was to see if i was watchin to see if i really trusted him and so he got mad cuz i watchd him cuz he said since i watched him i didnt trust him so now he is mad at me wat should i do
2006-06-11 19:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by sweet29053 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the reason being LOVE for you he wants to give maximum he has and he wants to learn new poses for you to please or he is curious and rather needs you to perform everything as freely as porn actresses do the other thing in his mind in my point of view he wants to know how male ***** three ladies and different poses and positions but he is not discharged he ***** continuesly but he discharges after long span he wants to please you like female stars acting in movie and wants to come as and when required.
2006-06-11 20:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by sharma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-21 09:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason dogs lick themselves, because they can. Is he a Gemini by any chance? Let him, he's going to anyway right? You two should go to someone that can help you communicate. Your trust for him has nothing to do with this and don't let him bring that up everytime. He's turning the subject at hand into something you're doing wrong. You're clearly unhappy and he's not willing to change his behavior. Relationships are a compromise and they will not work if you don't apply it. Did you not know this about him before you tied the knot?
2006-06-11 19:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by hereigoagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female and I enjoy porn I would watch it all day every day.I likeaman to watch porn because they are watching a film.(movie). I am the one that gets all the pleasure from him watching the porn. I myself get a little wild when watching them. Its just that some women have LOW self esteem. I am a Big woman and i have good self esteem. So seeing my men watch women that are smaller or hotter than me is okay. I just show my men that I can give him what hes watching and add to it.
2006-06-11 19:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Carla H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all husbands and men are like this. My husband is totally satisfied with me and i am with him and we dont need porn or others to do it for us!!!!! If it does nothing for him then why does he watch it? He should understand where you are coming from and stop doing this to you and to this marriage. I recommend counseling and help for the both of you.... Offer to spice things up in the bedroom for him and make some of your own homemade porn with just him and you in it and the pics!!!! He may also have an addiction problem to it as well.
2006-06-12 02:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you rather him watch porn or cheat?? Watch it with him it might add some spice to your relationship
2006-06-11 19:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Luvley27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋