I want to get so dirty with my husband of 4 yrs. I have raw animal s-e-x- on my mind. He says he does to. But when we're together in the moment, it is dull. Of course I don't tell him to his face, but he is a boring lover and I've done everything under the sun to fulfill any desires. I talk filth, I give him plenty of chances to say anything. I love him, but why does he have to be so shy? I feel so bad that he can't be comfortable with me. Is it maybe that he's just a quiet lover? (Plenty of times, but not during intimacy, he tells me he loves me). I can deal with that if someone relates to this in a positive way.
2006-06-11 19:47:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ur husband is shy lover but once this guy become animal u wont be able to stand after having sex this type of guys are scared of there inner powers so they mostly dont use it coz if they start they cant control them self
if u r really interested that he shuld start having sex with u whole day and night with horse power than its better u let him know u r able to sustain his power or just buy vigara without letting him know that u should pour it in his drink and after that get ready for adventure ride
but u need to be brave if u realy want to play with him
2006-06-11 20:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by snake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Marti, have you tried role playing? Tell him ahead of time and see if he can get into the role! You could play the naughty doctor and nurse giving each other very special sexual examinations. The cop and the hooker, buy a pair of hand cuffs and let the fun begin or one of my favorites along with my wifes is the naughty school girl. Get a plaid skirt, make it very short and put it on with your tallest heels and a blouse, walk into the principals office and tell him how naughty you have been. See if he dares to take you over his knee and give you a very sensual spanking! Stay in character as long as both of you can and enjoy the raw animal sex you are lusting for!
Have fun and good luck!
2006-06-12 13:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you need to tell him to his face... Communication is the number one key to a positive relationship!
If he is being boring in the bedroom, then ask him to tell you what turns him on?? Trust me, he will know whether it be through watching adult movies etc...
Remember that sex is meant to be fun and ADVENTUROUS, so have an open mind and try and be willing to try out all sorts of new things.. and i mean ANYTHING no matter how dirty it is..Whether it's oral, or even anal... some guys are way too shy to even consult their partners in this regard due to a respect matter which on it's own means that they care.. But you must get him to speak!!!
If this doesn't fix it then i suggest that you find your self another partner as i believe that if it doesn't work in the bedroom, then it won't work at all!!
Hope this helps....?
2006-06-12 02:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by NotSure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried with the lights off, him tied down, and blindfolded? Sometimes people do things in the dark that they'd never do with the lights on.Tease the guy and tell him what you want. As he does those things, reward him. It just might help your bedroom activities.
Or both of you make a list of things you'ld like to try, then follow through with that list (as long as you are both ok with what is on it).
2006-06-12 02:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some toys and flavor and spice it up... Try new posistions and ideas! Have fun with it. It is okay if he is a quite lover just let him be who he is and you be who you are! I am sure he loves you very much!!!
2006-06-12 10:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times us men are afraid to do certain things its one thing to say it but to get really wild and kinky we are afraid you women will think we are weired. You need to convince him its okay and you are not going to think he is strange or perverted.
2006-06-12 03:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋