What is it with this person I know?

Question

My best friend is 40 yrs. old & she is really pretty & about every 3-4 months she has an attraction for a different guy. She is married. Shes been married twice. Shes never cheated but why does she keep having "crushes" on other guys? She never acts on it but she tells me every time. I never know what to say to her.

Could it be that her husband is abusive?

Answer 1

Don't say anything to her, as long as she doesn't act on them, she is just having fun, but you might want to remind her, she has a husband at home. Women sometimes want what they can't have, and your friend may be one of those type of women.

Answer 2

Because this is how she feels and thinks. Some women are like that and so are some men. She may need counseling or help however if it goes to far and if she can never be completely happy with her husbands. Lusting in your heart means that you have already commited adultery in your heart and this means that i coule very easily become a reality some day!

Answer 3

having crsuh on somebody and constantly changing it is very common that why it is called crsuh. It is not dangerous until ur friend wants to change that crush into a seroius relationship. U have to guide her when ever she is wrong. If u feel what she is doing is wrong no wrong in tellng her that why frinds are for.

Answer 4

I have a friend that does this to. As far as I know she has never acted on it.

Answer 5

i think she just needs to feel sexy and some times a little crush can make you feel that way you know your own little secret

Answer 6

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