Would you get mad at your wife if she wanted to have sex everyday and do all kinds of different things with you?LIke wake you up with a bj ?my husband has been very weird lately when i try to do that yea he works that night shift and he stays up a lil when he gets home and helps with the baby.but i like to do special things for him like what i mentioned before cause i know he loves it but lately he hasnt been really allowing me to he lays on his stomach so i cant do it and then if i try he pushes me away ,but trys not to make it obivous he just says im tired let me be.but normally i coul ddo it even if he was real tired and he wouldnt lay on his stomach .what could be going on i just dont get him
2006-06-11 18:44:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well im married so would not give out my number
2006-06-11 18:50:25 · update #1
also to add we dont really do itthat often cause for one i just had our baby and during pregnancy was just not happening now im like whoa lets do it all the time and he is actting like that
2006-06-11 18:51:22 · update #2
Hello Nikki, most men wouldn't be mad at all for doing what you are trying to do. It could be though that between the new baby in the house and possibly some extra stress at work your husband is just learning how to deal with these changes and sex just isn't on the top of his list at the moment. What you could do is the next time he has a day off, make him a nice dinner, stay very positive and just talk to him. See if you can get him to open up about what may be troubling him. It sounds like the two of you have a great marriage and maybe he is just having some minor issues. If the two of you can talk though I'm sure everything will be ok.
Good luck
2006-06-12 06:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He works third shift, he also helps with the baby when he gets home,he probably is tired.Give a break and let him get some sleep.When a person is tired there body does not function the same as when they get a good nights sleep.
2006-06-11 19:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck NO I won't be mad but then again Wife stays up all night and sleeps all day but i would be happy to have that done to me i too get the cold shoulder and it hurts make me wonder if she is not getting it else were or doing things to her self while I sleep to make her not in the mood mmmmmmmm grrrrrrrrrrrrrr best of luck
2006-06-11 18:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys are different, for me i dream of someone to whom i can make love every single day several times. I also think that some people have different reactions after having a baby, may be he will change after a while. May be also you're trying too much.... give him some space and give him the gift of missing you!!! he probably need it.
2006-06-11 18:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by MNB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh seriously I dont get him either, I only wish you where not married. JK.. seriously if it where me I dont care how tired I am if my woman wants to blow me I would love it... I encourage that I be woken up to my girlfreind riding my C**k it would be great. hey I just ran a marathon... worked a 12 hr day, been up for a week on crank, shell shock from a war... I dont care if you want to give me a bj ladies have at it, I welcome it...
2006-06-11 18:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by justin l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you sound like a dream. he could be feeling jealous or angry about some thing. If he continues this behavior try the banana in the tailpipe. That will get his attention.
2006-06-11 18:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Texas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait till he is well rested and then ask him without making him defensive. Sometimes the way you ask can get someone defensive then you get nowhere. And most important do you have a twin sister because I am looking !!!
2006-06-11 18:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by irateone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He sounds like he is just in need of rest. Or maybe you just aren't that good. Either way, give him a break. He will let you know when he is horny.
2006-06-11 18:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just bored with it because he gets it so often. its like a baby with a toy, it is only exciting for a while, then it gets boring. so you put it in a box and pull out a new toy, when he gets bored with that one, give him the old toy.
P.S. you could just stop and see what happens...
2006-06-11 18:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you about me and my wife, but not on here. She actually wanted it everyday. We had a long talk about it and I found out a lot of things about her I didn't know, sexually. We worked it out. I am enyawe2000@yahoo.com. Let's talk about it but not on here. L
2006-06-12 00:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by sapahaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋