2006-06-11 17:28:42 · 15 answers · asked by Just Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do I quit loving you?
How do I leave when I don't want it to come to that?
Why don't you love me anymore?
2006-06-11 17:29:32 · update #1
It sounds like You are in a lot of pain, I have felt this same way over and over again in my life, here are my tips maybe they will help... 1st calm down, and think about when you two first met, 2nd find a nice time to calmly discuss your feelings with your mate, be careful of your words, but tell him how you feel. It doesn't sound as if you don't want any thing bad to happen to this relationship so don't mention the bad word "divorce". Also take a day for your self, go shoping with a friend or just cudle up with a good book, and remember everything will get better, ok good luck , I really hope this helps You. Marriage and Love is worth trying everthing ( and remember if this stuff dosn't work consider coucling, it is worth it).
2006-06-11 17:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by brandy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just continue being a good wife and if you can be better, aspire to do it. A man is pampered with the all out support and love given to him by his wife. Perhaps, he just doesn't show it to you but I'm sure, deep in his heart he sees what you do for him. If he seems not to care at all, don't be bothered for as long as you know that he has no other woman to appreciate.
The fact that you are still his wife may mean that he has no other woman at the moment. But if he has, you still have the chance to win against her by doing extraordinary things that not all women can do. Be the super understanding and caring wife that you could be. Do and be what he tells you he wants you to do and be. Appreciate him in his little ways. Serve him the best foods in the market. All these can lead his greater love to you.
After all, he chose you to be his wife and it wasn't a shotgun wedding, I'm sure. What made him marry you? If it wasn't for his love for you, you alone would know. But men who don't love their wives anymore would have no other choice but to leave OR womanize or womanize AND leave. If he hasn't done both or any of those at all, I would say that he loves you.
Be patient. Just go on loving your husband. One day, for all you know, his eyes will be opened to see you as one of the best wives in this whole wide world. Then, preserve that realization and your love story will be history.
2006-06-12 00:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find the root of your problem with him, he may still love you very much but has other stresses which prevent him from showing it. Marriage takes a lot of work, everyday work, you should only give up when you decide that there is no hope for you two.
2006-06-12 00:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by deluxe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the, "I still do", marriage conference.
It will rekindle the fire in your marriage. Go to www.familylife.com Click on marriage conference. Look for the "I still do."
Married for 18 years, however, I have only started to love my family for the past 7 years. Thanks for Family Life, changing lives for the family.
2006-06-12 01:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound almost like me, except i want him to leave with me, away from all these people he trust that is really only using him.
2006-06-12 00:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you married the wrong bloke.
2006-06-12 00:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy maybe you guys should try counseling if that dont work then seperate
2006-06-12 02:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Luvley27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage consoling that is if he is willing to fight for the marriage if he is not then i would say it is time to move on sorry to say that and hope you the best of luck
2006-06-12 01:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find some 1 then its easy
2006-06-12 00:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by shan-la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR MARRIAGE TRY TALKING TO HIM AND SEE WHATS GOING ON I REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE ASKING BUT TALK TO HIM THAT IS ALL THAT YOU CAN DO! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-06-12 01:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by lovinDIJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋