I don’t know what to do. Hubby is sick and can’t continue to DO IT as much as he used to. He has back trouble and can’t physically handle me anymore.
I can’t think straight. I can’t get motivated to do anything. I spend hours fantasizing, and get nothing else done. I can't hold a job. I'm thinking about things I shouldn't.
We have been together for many years and I will NOT cheat on him or leave him.
So the only conclusion I can see is to find a drug or something that will keep me from WANTING sex! Can anyone help me!
2006-06-11 04:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can have him please you in other ways, might help (oral, using sex toys on you, or his hands). That is easier for him to do, and you get satisfied. Or you can take care of it yourself masturbating or using sex toys.
2006-06-11 05:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mother of 2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to talk to him, let him know what you are feeling, and ask him to help you find a solution. If he loves you he will help you. If he doesn't help then you might want to find your own solution, be it divorce or sex with another. If you can seperate sex and love than it might be ok.If you say nothing to him about your feelings then it is your fault.
2006-06-11 12:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg
sorry i know ya frustrated but i cant think of anything to help and ive not heard of any pillslike that so maybeu could start by seeing ur gp
2006-06-11 11:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by km 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my, god....talk with your husband about alternatives. Be honest and if that doesn't work try a local sex-aholic organization, they do exist.
2006-06-11 12:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by wooly2223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nude photos of Hillary Clinton would do it for me
2006-06-11 11:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by rick s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some sort of tranquilizers...those will depress your sexual appetite. Xanax, Valium, painkillers, etc.....Good Luck!!
2006-06-11 11:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by 100% Chance of Pain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if it would okay if you took care of the problem yourself (maybe he'dwatch) consider taking a nice warm bath if u know what i mean!!!!!!!! workswonders
2006-06-11 11:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just masterbate, its not cheating to think of someone else while you doing it. That way you get your orgasm and get to fantisize without cheating.
2006-06-11 11:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by SnakeyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,if he has back trouble then maybe you should start getting on top.
2006-06-11 11:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by tiltintam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's called rubbers
2006-06-11 11:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by fartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋