I know this is private for you women...But I need to know where and how to stimulate the G.stop for great sex?

Question

And NO I am not a pervert Im a married man and been searching this answer for a long time without luck to pleasure my wife more better.

OOPS sorry i spelled that wrong
G. spot ......not the other way.

Answer 1

The G-spot is located on the anterior, or front wall of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix . You can find the G-spot by inserting one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers 'forward' so that they stroke the anterior wall of the vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of pressure will tell you if you've got it or not.



* Rear-entry/doggy position is best during intercourse to stimulate the G-Spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on top and a pillow beneath hips.

* To directly stimulate the G-spot lay your partner on her back and kneel between her legs using the thumb of your other hand to gently stimulate her clitoris. At the same slowly insert two fingers as far as is possible and comfortable into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening, pressing upward with the tips of your fingers until you are touching her G-Spot. Move your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are pointed more sharply upwards you can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls.

* Thrust your hand in and out simulating a penis intercourse style then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the G-spot is involved.

* The woman's pleasure is increased if you lick your partners clitoris and stimulate her G-Spot at the same time.

Another method is:

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The woman lies on her belly with her legs spread apart and her hips slightly raised.
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Insert your fingers with your palm down, into her vagina and explore the front wall.
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The woman moves her pelvis to make contact with your fingers.
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When the woman becomes very aroused, slip the other hand under her abdomen above her pubic hairs and slowly press.

Answer 2

Buddy, finding the g spot is great ... some chics totally groove on that. Others are not so taken by it. The BEST thing you can learn is the art of seduction. Pleasuring your woman is not merely a technique or two in bed, though there is nothing wrong with learning good technique. The best lovers know that your love making starts when you get up in the morning ... you find little ways to let her know how special she is to you. Break up the routine a little and do a nice thing for her during the day. Find romantic things that she loves. Insist on putting candles on the dinner table and help her clean the kitchen. Find little creative ways to do little things ... chics adore little things. Big things are cool, but the big things mean very little if you ignore the little things. By the time you get to the bedroom at night she will be the one dragging you in and ripping off your shirt. She may not wait for you to find the g spot before she is jumping all over your bones.

Answer 3

A lot of women don't know where this spot is, so asking her may not help, but using some of the anatomical advice already given here, she may be able to help you figure it out, and you can find it together. It's usually a ridged area just inside the opening of the vagina, and it takes a lot of coercing for a woman to respond. Be patient, because it takes time. Usually there is an uncomfortable feeling that you have to urinate, so a woman will shy away from it. If she rides it out, it is the most incredible orgasm she will ever have.

If you know where it is, stimulate it with your tongue or fingertips by gently massaging the area. Again, you must take the time; orgasm doesn't occur as fast as with clitoral stimulation.

Answer 4

Since you received so many good answers about the G-Spot, let me break the rules and ask.... are you bypassing the clitoris? It is .... THE SPOT to stimulate. It is right there up front and it is sooooo sensitive. You'll know when you've found it because it acts just like a little penis and gets filled with blood and erect. Most woman can only have an orgasm by clitoral stimulation. Just kiss it. Okay...blushing now...let me go get ready for church. Have fun finding the g and c!!!

Answer 5

Gosh, this is difficult to explain.

You put your fingers, at least two, just right past the pelvic bone. With the fingers pointed upwards, you'll feel a soft and smooth area. Feel around for it. You just flutter your fingers against it. How hard or soft you do it you'll be able to tell by your wife's response.

Don't be discouraged if you don't find it at first. Just keep trying.

I feel one of the reasons it feels so good is because it's almost directly under the bladder. If she has a small amount of urine in her, it will feel even better.

Okay you people who feel I shouldn't answer this but I believe he's telling the truth in his question and some women don't know either.

Answer 6

PJ is right. It does take some practice, but when you get there, it will be totally worth it for you and your wife. The G-Spot feels a bit differently than the rest of her vagina - maybe women are different, as mine is a bit bumpy not smooth. But if my husband taps it with his finger during oral sex - OMG!!!! Another good way to hit it is if you have sex from behind, if she angles her hips just right the tip of your penis can stroke it - again, an amazing feeling and some of the most incredible orgasms I have ever had.

Answer 7

PJ has it exactly right. Most men insert the finger or fingers going towards the back side of a women but it's on the front side of the woman ... GO PJ GO !!!
P.S it's a great question because Men usually wont go this far to find out and it's great to hear a man who is so into pleasing his wife that he has taken this route to find the answer...

Answer 8

I've always asked. Communication is a great key. And it's a big plus to say, "Do you like it when I do this?" If yes, keep it up. If no, ask her what would make the experience better. The G-spot is as much a mental location as it is a physical location. BTW, have fun with it and discovering it.

Answer 9

Your wife and you need to tell each other where and what feels right...she should be able to direct you how to push the right buttons, I tell my husband all the time...Communication is the best answer...Without it,neither of you will know what makes you happy in your sex life. I have friends that have never had an orgasm because they didnt want to tell their spouse what gets them Hot and what makes them orgasm..it is fun,believe me,ya gotta communicate.Good Luck

Answer 10

HM My advice would be go deeper when your hitting that don't be scared to penetrate deep as possible the results will be the milky substance that your seeking and the pleasurable screams from your wife will be like something you've never heard before ,Trust me I've been there!