Friends - July 2007

I really need a nickname for this guy he's white and has blonde hair

2007-07-10 05:37:15 · 14 answers · asked by steelerchick 2

she's stuck in my mind. My ex best friend who made me feel worthless with her lies and actions. like i meant less to her then some new bf that she slept around with for 3 months before she left for the other side of the country. she treated me really badly and threw it all back in my face when i confronted her about it as if it was all my fault. I told her we were no longer friends and will never see her ever again. But i'm stuck, i keep thinking of the crap that she put me through and how i felt like she traded our friendship for a 3 month fling. And how much of a horrible person she turned out to be. but it's all getting too much, i just want to forget about her and move on with my life. but i think of her everyday. even though i don't want to and am happy and relived that i'll never see her again. i did care for her deeply once, perhaps a little too much. but that's all been burned to ash and none of what happened means anything. and yet it's still there.

2007-07-10 05:14:12 · 24 answers · asked by asguard 3

at this point I honestly wish i could die... if i didn't have two small kids life wouldn't even be worth living.. i swear he has used and played me for the very last time, but this time he has really crossed THE line.. i have even thought about killing him... I know I need help...can't talk to my mom she would never understand..(she still doesn't know y I love him)...I swear I don't want this to get around to anybody especially at work... hell .. even as i type i wonder can i tell u everything without u judging me OR telling someone? ...I don't know anything any more...when i called u the other morning i had a hand full of pills and a bottle of absolute...in the end i settled for the liquor and didn't take the pills...but it's to the point where i don't even want to wake up some days.... u know i love my kids...both of them, but i just can't keep pretending I'm as strong and confident as i might appear...it's a front..inside I feel a sadness deeper than the word sorrow itself...

2007-07-10 03:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

Say that you are friends with a couple and that you are equally close to both. The guy in the relationship is head over heels in love with his wife. He adores her, his life revolves around he, and he can't wait to be a father. He is all about this family. The girl is pregnant, but she has confided is some other friends who in turn informed you that she had a couple affairs and is pregnant with another man's child, but does not plan on telling her husband that he is not the father and she is staying. None of the other girls are friends with the guy, so if anyone is going to tell him, it would be you. Would you let him know his wife was sleeping around and the kid wasn't his. The thing is this will totally destroy him. Or just keep quiet and let him stay happy???

2007-07-10 03:42:38 · 30 answers · asked by Whiskey Tango Foxtrot 4

Okay, I have been having an affair for the last 9 months with someone I got to love dearly. My husband is the sweetest man and he has done everything for me. He has been there for me and my family. The thing is before I started the affair I asked my husband that, " I do not want to be married to him anymore but he insisted we work it out. He has put his whole life aside 10 years to protect me and do everything for me. I really want like this other man like I love my husband but I am attched. I want to leave this other man because I want to be with my husband and make things work. The thing is my husband wants me to call this other man and end it in his presence, after that end it with him. He will turn around and cry in disbelief and than turn around and hold me tight and tells me he loves me. He was crying all night. He wants a divorce from me one minute and the next, he claims he loves me and he doesn't want to share me with another man. I was wrong.

2007-07-10 03:25:07 · 30 answers · asked by K.S 1

2007-07-10 03:22:05 · 13 answers · asked by cristal b 1

Ok, she was hanging out with me a lot even on days I said I needed space. usually something happened and she was upset. I had to take her to the hospital one of those times and another time her daughter. ok no biggie there. She was clingy and now she says I was clingy and taking up too much of her time. I said ok. I will give you more space no problem. Now she is giving him another chance ok. She wants me to be there for her ok, but she wants her space ok. How do I do both? I am confused. I talk to her she says she wants space, I do not talk to her she wonders why I have not talked to her. I do not understand what is going or what to do anymore. Any idea or advice will be appreciated. I do Love her as my best friend and maybe just maybe I would consider more latter after she her life straightened out. I am at a loss what to do because I do not know what she wants anymore. before she was calling me atleast 3 - 5 times a day. I try to see how she is doing every 2 - 3 days.

2007-07-10 02:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 02:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by nano 1

Ok so my friends arent christian and they listen to songs that probably you guys listen to but ten i fell left cuz they singing those songs and i dont know anything. Help
please and thank-you

2007-07-10 02:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many ppl hate it when someone is talkin tough on the net tryin to make you shite your pants??

2007-07-10 02:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out yesterday that my female friend is bi. i am against bi, lesbian, and gay people because of my morals and my religion. i upset her because i didn't accept her and i felt uncomfortable around her. i even started crying because i didn't want to lose a friend of 10 years. i am 13 and she is 14. is she just trying to find out her sexuality? was i wrong for being shocked? what do i do? all answers appreciated.

2007-07-10 01:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 23:57:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 23:56:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

A so called friend has just dropped me & to be honest it's a relief as she had become so demanding & such hard work that it felt like I had a second job.I'm ok with this (we'd been having problems for over a year) but my boyfriend says I should'nt just let her go as we've been mates for such a long time. I guess my question is do you really need to text or ring someone every day or see them every week for them to be considered a good friend. Because thats what she seemed to want & to be honest I just don't have the time to devote to just one person.

2007-07-09 23:36:42 · 18 answers · asked by Jaime 2

i have been friends with ths gal 4 more than 8 years now but of late things have changed. we dont talk like we used to and i think we are slowly but surely drifting away from one another. what should i do? i hate to see use seem like complete strangers!

2007-07-09 22:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by tott 3

i have been friends with ths gal 4 more than 8 years now but of late things have changed. we dont talk like we used to and i think we are slowly but surely drifting away from one another. what should i do? i hate to see use seem like complete strangers!

2007-07-09 22:26:17 · 15 answers · asked by tott 3

I don't think that having kids is wrong or anything, but I have a friend, who is 17, and seems to only want to get married and have a lot of children. I am worried about this for a lot of reasons. One, I am afraid that she will be quicker to marry a guy at a younger age and not think as hard as she should, two, that she will not take her college education as seriously as she should because she does not plan on having a job, three, that she will end up living through her children and husband instead of taking up her own intrests, and finally that she is just not ready to make this desicion in high school. I have nothing against SAHM, so dont think I am discouraging her from taking that role, but I feel that she should have goals for herself and I have never heard her talk about wanting to acomplish anything but to be a wife and mother. I do not say anything to her when she talks about this, but I want to know if there is a way to talk to her about my concerns without offending her?

2007-07-09 21:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by AGM120 4

when we talk my head just goes empty on what to talk about i dont have nothin to say and he always brings somethin up instead of me and he says i dont talk about nothin so what should i do

2007-07-09 21:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by mz.gaskew 1

annoys me soooooo much,
but i never want to tell her
because it would be mean.
she bosses me around everywhere,
and I can't take it anymore.
She tries to be my friend, but she tries too hard
and it gets one my nerves,
and if she wanted to be my friend, why would
she be mean to me ? What do I do with her and say to her?

2007-07-09 21:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my dearest friend seems rather down and overwhelmed. She's had a difficult couple of years that include alot of stresses with money, work, and children as well as some other things.
The most alarming things I have noticed lately is her house and her children. Her husband and their children moved into their first house this year. My friend, who would normally be very excited about fixing it up and making it look nice has not even finished unpacking half of her stuff. Her house, which she normally prided on being very clean is a complete mess 99 percent of the time- kind of in a way that friends (including myself) find it disgustingly gross. The most alarming would be the "drop" in her parenting skills for lack of a better phrase. Things that she would normally be appauled at hearing other parents doing- she now does herself. For instance, she stays up late and wakes up long after her children are awake and they are far too young to be awake and alone roaming the house.

2007-07-09 21:19:56 · 1 answers · asked by LE!SA 4

2007-07-09 20:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by pandurang j 3

and having A bit of trouble dealing with it he died 1 month ago on the 3rd My mom just died 1 year ago on the 25th of this month im having a hard time and everyone is sleeping ...

2007-07-09 20:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some girls I know have best friends which are guys. Do you think the girls act like guys themselves? How would you act? I'm afraid that when I get a good guy friend I'll fall in love. Suggestions?

2007-07-09 18:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by love, come save me 2

This chick I went to elementary school with IMs me all the time, & sometimes I don't wanna be bothered. & she always buzzes me & demands an answer for my personal business & tries to control my life over the internet & even scammed me out of $150, so I'm not speaking to her anymore. So now, she sends me offline messages, like, "I saw you on MySpace earlier. You were online." & she DEMANDS that I put her on my Preferred List on my blogs, & she always talks about that she wants to have sex with me & my friends. & she so-claimed to use that $150 to get married, when she didn't get married & used that $$ to get a tattoo & just all of a sudden starts mysteriously getting all this free jewelry & clothes. & then she calls my friends hoes & sluts & she doesn't even know them, just because she's mad b/c they don't wanna entertain her sexual requests. Or she would say, "Yeah, I saw u was online today. I thought you was @ school, so u lied." Can't I be online @ school without her bothering me?

2007-07-09 17:53:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

"I'm not saying NOTHING!" Like for example, I might tell something that happened about an unfortunate event about something that happened to me, & the friend might say "No comment". or "I'm gonna leave that subject alone". & by personal experience, when they say that, that means that they figured I deserved what bad happened to me, but just don't wanna say it. Like I just told a so-called friend about me not making good grades in courses that were easy A's & she said, "I'm not sayin' nothin'." Like deep in her heart she wanted to just LAUGH IN MY FACE.

Is that a true friend? A friend who when you tell her your problems, she says NO COMMENT b/c she figures you deserved what bad happened to you?

2007-07-09 17:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my friend emailed me and said "hey wats up?"
i ressponded " nothing much just getting reddy for my sisters wedding in agust". she responded " oh i see how it is ur sis is getting married and u wont invite me to her wedding i see how it is i'll just find a better friend!" i responded "ofcoars ur invited and we havnt even sent out the invitations yet so wat makes u think ur not invited"
its been about a month and she wont respond to me!

dose she have a right to be mad at me i meen this is my sisters wedding not mine i cant controll who she invites i meen she barrly knows my sis and we have alot of family so theres gonna be alot of people coming!

who is at fault me or her?

2007-07-09 17:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Hadia 2

2007-07-09 15:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by butt_boggle_4_all 2

these girls at school are bullying me because im skinny so i tried to gain more pounds but they still made fun of me!(im not all that skinny) then i tried ignoring them and it worked at first bu they kept on going and i just wanted to cry! they only make fun of me not any of my friends it makes me feel ugly!and i am too scared to defend myself because these girls are big!What should i do?

2007-07-09 15:20:57 · 49 answers · asked by lola 1

my mom wont let me go hang out with my friend at all now this week because i was with my friends, and we rode our 4 wheeler on the road without helmets (and in tennessee you cant ride 4 wheelers on the rode, and are required to wear a helmet if your under 18. so do you think my mom is over reacting? it was just a small law we broke.

2007-07-09 15:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by ThatoneGirl90 1

I am friends with this guy for 2 years and we are really close. I am not the perfect friend but when he needs I am there to comfort him and to be kind. I love pleasing him and whatever he askes me to do even if it's the most crazy stuff. I am leaving the country and I told him I was sad as hell to leave. He wouldn't say a thing to comfort me or showed any pain from my depart.
I asked him if we could meet and talk cuz I was in need of a friendly shoulder, however, I wonder if it's not a shame to ask for something the other should offer you without need asking, since I was there when he needed.
What do you guys think?

2007-07-09 13:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by Barkang 4