some mean girls at school keep bullying me?

Question

these girls at school are bullying me because im skinny so i tried to gain more pounds but they still made fun of me!(im not all that skinny) then i tried ignoring them and it worked at first bu they kept on going and i just wanted to cry! they only make fun of me not any of my friends it makes me feel ugly!and i am too scared to defend myself because these girls are big!What should i do?

Answer 1

You can either put a brick in your purse to hit them with like Dewey did, or hit them right in the throat like Malcolm's Israeli girlfriend did to Reese.

Answer 2

I went through this when I was in Jr high an high school until I moved. (Not because of the bullying) I would just continue to ignore them and surround yourself with your own friends who like you and appreciate you the way you are. Get involved in after school activities either sports, drama, music, whatever. I would also let your principal know what was happening.
I was skinny too and now I'm 40 and look better than I did in high school. Some of us are late bloomers. The funny thing is these girls will all be fat when you see them at your 5 year high school reunion. Don't let them get to you.

Answer 3

You basically have two choices, either ignore them or try to befriend them.

If the only reason they are picking on you is because you are skinny then it is obvious they have some issues with how they look and feel about themselves.

The fact that they are unloading their hatred on you should actually be taken as a complement as it is obvious they wish that they could be like you, but they aren't, so they can only try to make you feel bad about your physique by picking on you.

The saying misery loves company is so true in this case.

Seriously, just ignore them.

Or you can just be nice to them; give them a sincere smile look them in the eyes and just say "Hi". Nothing more, nothing less.

Personally, I would do the latter of the two. Try to become friends with them but don't pity them, just understand them.

Good luck and keep smiling! School grounds are the worst for what you are experiencing. Just know that when you get out of school, the world gets a lot better as far as immaturity goes...but then getting out of school also brings on adult responsibilities...ugh, to be young again... I digress...

Answer 4

Poor you I know how you feel. When I was in elementary school people used to tease me because I was skinny too. Well once you get to highschool things will change. You will look skinny and awesome. And the bullies........well let's just say their going to be fat with rolls everywhere and have pimples all over their face. Cheer up! You know what! Dont cry! It's not worth crying for a stupid reason. Just hang on. Pick me as Best Answer? Yes?

Answer 5

First off their only making fun of you because they're jealous that you're skinny and they're big. They're trying to make themselves feel better by making you feel like crap. Don't let them get to you! Remember everything they're saying is a lie and is out of jealousy. No matter what don't let what they're saying get to you. You need to do something about it though. You said you ignore them but they continue to harass you so You can inform an adult at your school or your parents or brothers/cousins/etc. if this doesn't work, then you have no choice but to stand up for yourself and if that means to fight, then fight. First tell your brother or someone to teach you the basics of self-defense and fighting then go Tell the girls that you don't like them making fun of you and if it comes down to fighting you'll know how. If they out number you, try to pick up something nearby like a stick or a bat to help make the fight more fair. And make sure to try to keep your face covered so that they don't hit you there. and hitting a girl in her t!ts will hurt her a lot.

Answer 6

It's all jealousy... they probably see you as a threat.... Don't worry and dont let them get to you Tyra Banks and many other models were bullied and look at them now... I was made fun of because I developed much quicker than they did and now I am having the time of my life in college very healthy and the girls who made fun of me...no word of a lie they are all high school drop outs with 1 to 4 children...Now I'm the one that's laughing....Oh ! and Have you tried speaking with a counselor... I know it's hard to talk to your parents sometimes.. Good luck baby girl don't change for anyone you are beautiful just as you are

Answer 7

Get into a martial arts that teaches how to really defend yourself in(street fights). Kick-box(Korean)style is effective. This will build your confidence. Tell these SOB to get a life and question why they are so hateful...are they abused or something and that you will pray for them. They probably have a low self worth and need to pick on someone to make their own self feel good! Console your parents,guidance counselor or a teacher that will follow through with tough consequences. If all else doesn't work...and someone initiates a fight....use force without fear and punch her nose in if you have to. Then hopefully she will mind her own!
Good luck and don't believe their foolish lies!

Answer 8

Don't take in what she's saying. It just makes her sound immature to make fun of someone's weight. You don't have to change for someone who is bullying you. They really aren't worth it. If she makes fun of you again, then just say to her, grow up. I can tell that you are a beautiful young woman and she's probably just jealous of that. Don't fear them. If they even give you much as a threat, just go to a teacher or someone. It isn't being a snitch because your safety is on the line. And tell anyone who thinks otherwise that.

Answer 9

That's a new one - usually it's the other way around... ;);)

Most girls in school are OBSESSED with looking thin - and these ones are just jealous that you are!

Ignore them COMPLETELY - don't gain weight JUST to make them stop, and just keep walking (don't RUN!) whenever you see them. This will tell them exactly what you know deep inside - that you are BETTER than they are, and they are not WORHTY of your attention.

If you give them the power, they will keep ruining your life. Once you "fix" whatever it is they are bothering you about this week, they will move onto something else until you finally graduate...

Answer 10

I understand how you feel. I used to feel the same way. I myself is skinny. I weigh only 112 pounds and I'm 17. People always said I had a eating disorder and it hurt me a lot even after my doctor said I was healthy. You are not ugly. Continue to ignore them and love yourself. Talk to someone you trust.

Answer 11

Honey trust me, in a few years people like this won’t bother you any more. Because you will come to realise that they were just insanely jealous. You have to try real hard to rise above them and put your nose in the air and when they tease you just laugh and say “My gosh, you guys must be real bored if your teasing me to pass the time. Either bored or jealous. Go find something else to do”. Act as if it doesn’t bother you at all and walk away with a calm smile. They won’t bother doing it unless they get a rise out of you. So if you react like you don’t care, they’ll stop. Also- build up your self esteem with sport and team based activities. Good luck sweety.