My friend competes with me on everything - women, money, possessions, status... EVERYTHING! It makes him look so insecure and pathetic that it embarrasses me. His girlfriends over the years have talked to me about it - saying he always talks about me, so much, that it freaked them out. He has so much going for him, he has no reason to be jealous of me or my life. I'm very popular amongst our mutual friends and in the community, so I think that causes some of his resentment. Recently, I've been going through some big changes and have been needing a friend. He will only be there for me if it makes him look good.
I'm feeling like giving up on him. We've been friends for 10 years, but he feels toxic.
I spoke with him about all this, but he blew it off, saying he loved me and that I was just being a baby.
What would you do?
2007-07-14
08:58:16
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