I like this boy and I know he likes me too. He smiles at me all the time and waves and everything, and its kinda obvious. But he isnt very pretty and hes kinda chunky but hes really nice and sensitive hes like what almost every girl dreams about i like him alot but if i go out with my friends and other people will make fun of us.
So heres the problem...
The boy I like and likes me isnt very pretty and hes kinda chunky but hes kind and sensitive but if i go out with him everyone will make fum of ME because im going out with a not so popular boy. Thats why Im hiding the secert that i like him.
and hes kind a shy like me I am REALLY shy, I CANT ask him!! Besides arent boys supossed to ask the girl out?
Please help me!! Im STUCK!!
2007-07-14 13:56:37 · 7 answers · asked by ILoveYou,<3(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, this is a small world. I've been in a situation like this before. You shouldn't care about what other people think. It may be hard to do, but if you really like him, it'll be worth it. If you know for sure that he likes you and you like him, than I would suck it up and tell him. No, boys aren't the ones that have to ask. Girls can the guys, too! Like I said, just suck it up and tell him. If he rejects you, he's not worth it anyway. Best of luck to you!
2007-07-14 14:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you sound very immature to worry what your friends or people would say or do. Do you care if they make fun of you? Would they make fun of you? Why are you so fixated on his weight or his popularity? (Who really really cares if he's chunky or not so popular except immature little girls?)
If you want to ask him out, ask him out, and cut out the stupid simpering of "I'm shy!!!"
And knock off making a secret of liking him. That's childish, too.
2007-07-14 21:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him you shouldn't care about how he looks or how popular he is. guys usually like it when the girl makes a move first. but, if you are going to ask him out, it would be better to ask him in person not like in a note or anything like that. I'm sure that if you really want to go out with him, you'll be able to do it. I know it's hard, but you can do it!
2007-07-14 21:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by _-Eliz-_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry what anyone else will say about you and this guy.
If you like each other, that's all that matters. Odd couples get together all the time. It's ok if he doesn't fit the image your friend might expect. Once they see how happy you are with him, they'll like him as much as you do.
Just go for it, you might regret it if you don't.
2007-07-14 21:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him though you love him but you have some reverved opinion about him.Dont let him hear you say people are saying this or that ,because you are the one in love ,not your so called observers.
2007-07-14 21:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by wondersrevealed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends should like u no matter what u do and i think u should take a chance on the guy u obviously like him and he likes u
2007-07-14 21:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by lmao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question! hello! you like him, he likes you, the real question IS: are you willing to choose "like" over rep?
2007-07-14 21:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bobba Shanika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋