okay so i moved in with my boyfriend about 2 months ago, and we both used to be into drugs, well i started asking my friends (who are still into drugs) not to smoke weed in the house any more, well while they are here they pretend they are going to the bathroom and smoke, or they wait until my boyfriend leaves to pick me up from work to smoke in the house. Well the other day a friend, Liz, stopped by to pick something up from my house and found my two friends, Nick and Renee, smoking a bowl in my house. When i confronted them about it they said, "Sorry we didnt realize it until we started smoking."
I dont know what to do because they dont seem to want to listen and respect me at all.
2007-07-14 06:49:21 · 7 answers · asked by 14 weeks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they do mention, call, or text to say that they are coming down people just show up, and im getting tired of it.
2007-07-14 07:28:53 · update #1
It doesn't sound like you friends have very much respect for your decision. They have no right to smoke in your home when you've asked them not too. I know this may be hard, but I think you need to find some new friends who aren't drug users. Not only will you feel better about having friends that you can trust, but it will also help you to keep from regressing.
2007-07-14 07:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Imbue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 06:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldn't be living with your boyfriend until your wedding night.
These people you are talking about, are not your friends, if they disrespect your rules for your home. They should not be allowed to come over any more. Why are they in your house when you are not home anyway? You should never allow people to stay at your house when you leave. The temptation to steal from you will take over one day. If the authorities show up and find them with drugs, you could be arrested too, and in some states you will lose your home.
2007-07-14 07:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have made the choice to quit then they should respect you enough not to do it in your house or around you. Tell them all at the same time......I don't want you to smoke around me or in my house anymore or you can all leave.You will get some who will get up and leave and you will get some who will respect your wishes. Whatever happens they wont come over to just get stoned any more.
2007-07-14 11:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to choice for u
u can leave them alone because real friends respect your decision and thought no matter what and something so petty as stop smoking in ur house should not be aproblem
the other choice should be to not invite them to ur house if they can't respect it or boyfriend
2007-07-14 07:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by drw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dsnt snd like they r ur real friends... if they were then they wld respect u and they wldnt be doing it. hang out with a new croud while hangin out with ur old friends and still try to get them out of the habit..
2007-07-14 08:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL NOT ONLY IS WEED NASTY AND SMELLS BAD, YOU ASKED THEM TO NOT DO THAT IN YOUR HOME. IF THEY WERE YOUR TRUE FRIENDS THEY SHOULD RESPECT YOU AND YOUR HOUSE NOT TO DO THAT . IF THEY STILL DO IT, YOU SHOULD NOT LET THEM HAVE THE PRIVLEDGE OF COMING TO YOUR HOUSE ANYMORE UNTIL THEY LEARN TO RESPECT YOU .
2007-07-14 06:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋