Should I keep her as a friend? or leave her to her petty ways.?

Question

On the fourth of july one of my girlfriends and my kids godmother called me and said she was coming over,I said okay. Later that day my so-called bestfriend called and said she wanted to come over but I told her that i didn't think that it was a good idea because my other friend was coming over and they can't stand eachother and even though she said she wouldn't say anything to her I still didn't want them both over at the same time just to keep confusion and tension down. Long story short she cops and attitude and hangs up on me, I think this is very petty because all I wanted to to was keep confusion down so my question is should I let the situation go and our friendship? We haven't even spoken since and I'm not the type to kiss azz and I'm not apologizing because I wasn't the one that was wrong.

For one my children's godmother would not have wanted to come over if she knew my other friend was over and if my so called bestfriend would have called first yes I would've done the exact same thing, I see no reason to sit in someone's face that you don't like. That is so stupid to me especially if you don't have to.

Answer 1

Leave her to her petty ways. You don't need the drama - well I don't really know you, but I am assuming you don't need the drama.

Answer 2

You need to ask yourself a bunch of follow up questions:

If your best friend had called first would you have turned your kid's godmother away? And if so, would she have copped the same attitude. Would your best friend have been civil? Why don't they get along?

Sounds like you need to look at both people (regardless of relationship status) and figure out if you need to get rid of one or the other - or in some instances, both.

Answer 3

Let her make the first move toward making up and getting over it, if she wants to. If she doesn't, then don't bother with her.

Answer 4

leave her and make new friends that you can trust