Friends - April 2007

My brother 27 got married last OCt to a 25 yo . se had one child age 8 prior to their marriage and had a 2 yo together and she was pregnant at the time..we had become great friends..really close talk everyday and we visit every weekend now she all of sudden not 1 yr later is no longer in love with my brother ..she wants to live together as parents and see one of his (EX) friends(now) on the side..for a 3 month period..I am hurting for my neices and nephew and my brother he is so in love with her...how can I stay "friendly" with my sister in law despite how i feel that she is hurting the innocent children and my brother and then maybe after 3 months go back to normal..I know this sounds twisted but its life

2007-04-27 07:57:29 · 3 answers · asked by Alli 3

This girl came up to me in class and gave me this card against premarital sex form the assembly this morning. She meant to insult me her face was beat red when nobody was paying attention or laughing. I never talked to her I felt bad for her actually because she has no friends and is made fun of (partly because her brother). I don’t have a reputation like that or anything. I don’t think she knew how much it hurt me I was raped when I was younger than 5 (nobody knows or will ever know). I’m not sure I should confront her about what she said to me or ignore her.

2007-04-27 07:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by uhs_08 1

2007-04-27 07:42:48 · 19 answers · asked by §P¡©ë¥ 2

My 'so-called' best friend of 15+ yrs has been acting really odd lately. When I try to talk to her, she comes off as everything is fine and there is nothing wrong. Even when she hurts me, she acts like she did nothing wrong and expects me to be ok. She knows what she is doing, I have been friends with this girl for almost over 15 yrs, I am not reading into things.....or am I?

It all started about 2 months or so ago....my fiance and I finally set a wedding date....and she was the 1st person I called. Right off the bat she started telling me what she will or will not wear, that absolutely no-one will touch her hair/makeup...that she would cut off all her hair, the shoes, and everything else! I just sat there and was like....1st- I thought this was MY wedding...2nd-are you kidding me....it is too early to deal with this crap and she knows, or should know already, that I wouldn't let her stand by me as my matron of honor looking like a clown!.....story continues below.

2007-04-27 07:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Connors! 4

I have a friend that considers me his bestfriend i am a little gun shy about it due to other"best friends". should i let my guard down or give it more time like i am inclined to do. i've only known him for 9 months

2007-04-27 05:59:37 · 35 answers · asked by ~ much jade love ~ 1

2007-04-27 05:51:34 · 38 answers · asked by Jazmin M 1

OMG please answer within the next minute with a sulition I can't even think for myself I'm about to explode. My best friend is with me and she has to go bad too. It's my sisters wedding so that's why we aren't in school. We are in our dresses. WE can't soil them. Oh Gosh Please help I'm about to explode. Please no stupid answers i'm not kidding!

2007-04-27 05:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by NiCOLE 1

You know where you was to a point where you just wanted SOMEBODY to talk to who was willing to listen to what you have to say?

2007-04-27 04:04:39 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1

He has poor A levels (although one maths)

Dropped out of uni and is now a cook. How can he claim he is more intelligent than me when I work in the city and have a Bsc.

Whats the best way to rub his face in it.

2007-04-27 02:08:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-27 02:04:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been friends for ten years but have had a sexual relationship.

2007-04-27 01:56:58 · 2 answers · asked by limetreewisdom 1

I'm a black female and so is my mate. She recently married a white guy cause she hates black men (daddy issues).

But we had a conversation about one of her husbands friends who has a crush on me, to which I said I wasn't really interested in him because he wasn't really my type.

And then she said that I probably wasn't his type anyway, because he'd probably prefer a girl who was 'more white' like her.

Her exact words were: Because he's never dated a black girl before , I think he'd prefer someone who was more white, like me!

And I sat there thinking...wtf!

Please advice.

2007-04-27 01:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by Nothing's Forever 2

My friend thinks that we don't need information from the past. That history is lame and over. I understand it's important so that we don't repeat mistakes. But she doesn't understand that.

2007-04-27 01:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-27 00:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Y do we feel insecured in a relationship, whatever its is, friendship, or any other family relationship.

Are we the people who feel insecure or are our loved ones are not capable to provide us a security?

why do we feel insecure?

2007-04-26 23:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an old friend which i lost contact with over five years ago. I know he used to live in Columbus, OH, and i believe he now lives in West Lafayette, IN. But there are no phone listings for him. His name is Jeffrey L Dimos and he is 41 now. If anyone has heard about him, please respond as I would be most grateful.

2007-04-26 23:36:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happy birthday to me
Happy birthday to me
Happy birthday dear MEEeeee!
Happy birthday to me!

;o)

2007-04-26 21:39:26 · 5 answers · asked by Andy C 3

doing anything worth talking about!!!
i am at work and i just thought i would take some time to talk to the rest of the world!!!

2007-04-26 20:27:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend at the time, except me as a package. Meaning I already had a child. We are now married, and, I had his 2 children. He feels there is no bond between my 1 child that isn't his. But you would think, there was a bond, it's been about 8 years. should I be upset with this feeling he has? Then I'm like no, I understand. I would probably feel the same. But at the same time I feel crush that he feels this way.

2007-04-26 20:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 19:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by love&fury don't mix 1

Ok, try this on for size:
A while ago, someone once said to me:" If I had legs like yours, I'd walk on my hands." And I don't know until this day if that was meant as a compliment or as an insult.
What's been said to you? And what have YOU said that could have been taken both ways?

2007-04-26 19:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by Snake Eyes 6

My best friend, who is also my cousin, have been friends since birth. We've always been close, but she has very low self esteem and has always competed with me. I've overlooked it until now. I moved a few years ago and now we live 700 miles away. She has just found out that she is pregnant, she's 18. She doesn't want to work and as sad as it sounds, I think the pregnancy was planned so she doesn't have to work. I planned to drive up to be there with her for her appointment. A week before I was leaving, my oil pan blew out. I had to get it fixed and by the time I paid for that and my insurance. I didn't have near enough to make it up and back. I told her, "Bad news hun, don't think I can make it. Call you tomorrow" She told back "Not mad, but youre a coward" This infuriated me. I have always looked out for her. When I was raped, she gossiped about it. She had sex willingly, told me how great it was, then when her mom found out, she said she was raped. Makes me so angry. All about her.

2007-04-26 19:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Unknown 2

He says he won't pick anyone because he doesn't know. What should I say or do to make him go to the dance with me?

2007-04-26 18:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by brendagee. 2

When I get frustrated at people, or anything in general I delete them. Like off of my cellphone, buddy list, etc... I try to remove their presence as best as I can, almost as if they never existed, even if it's just a fight, and there is a chance we'll make up again. Is that a bad thing to do? Would that be considered running away from my problems, in a way?

2007-04-26 17:43:42 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 2

2007-04-26 17:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my frrrined is having a birthday prty and she invited me and i dont know if i should go because i dont really like her or her parents i dont know if i should go

2007-04-26 15:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by Calista 1

Why is it when you break away from someone you once cared for so deeply, you feel such anger for them after?

2007-04-26 15:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by MUA_besos 1

well, ever since i came to high school i met some kewl people and everything but i just can't seem to trust them and i keep doubting their friendship to me for events that keep happening. the people i hang out with are just like me but they are considered "popular" and i feel like i'm just someone they talk to when their other "popular" friends are off somewhere without them. overall, i don't care about popularity but i feel so used. and sometmies, i feel like i should abandon these people but then i'd have no friends and be lonely. what should i do?

2007-04-26 15:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ Pretty Innocent 2

I just turned 16 and I met this girl who is getting ready 2 turn 15.I know her brother and I told him I love her.I am moving and probably wont see her 4 a while(2 WEEKS) I told her I loved her and she said it hit her hard but she didnt say it back but I do feel she cares 4 me and might not want 2 say she loves me because shes afraid of what might happen. I cried and told her I was afraid I would lose her.she tried 2 comfort me and she always asks me what i'm thinking about we laugh together and have fun but these 2 weeks are going 2 be hard 4 me. I fell like she really had feelings 4 me is it a freindship or dos she love me?

2007-04-26 15:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by yaboy27 1

So It's been like a soap opera. This is regarding the girl which I spooked away because I came onto her really hard. Anyways I bump into her everyday at the workplace. Since the incident the first time I saw her, I avoided her, and as I looked up I looked at each other, I said Hi, she said Hi. Next day we bumped into each other. I said Hi she said Hi. The day after she just kinda looked at me and nodded her head a little bit, so did I. Today we really came face to face. I said hi, how are you, I shook her hand, then she came close so that I could give her a kiss in the cheek like we used to kiss. Later on in the day I saw her again, but this time we didn't greet each other. Also it seems that when certain people are around, this person is more reserved, but when they are not she is more herself. What would anyone make out of this situation. Does she still like me?

2007-04-26 15:16:51 · 1 answers · asked by rrk33 2