Friends - April 2007

Hey, I am 13 years old and I have a little bit of a jealousy problem with one of my friends. OK, maybe a big problem. I have this one friend who is 12, but I can't help but feel jealous of her. Although the whole grade seems to hate her, I always think of how pretty she is and I am not, no matter how many times people tell me I'm prettier or nicer or whatever. And I feel like I'm losing one of my best friends because she is always talking to them and getting in the way of our friendship, even though they are not friends. Now I feel as though this jealousy problem has taken over my whole life. I feel like I'm always at competition with her, and when I'm in her classes, I watch practically every move she makes, cause I always think that she is going to steal away all my friends or something, and then I always end up being mean to her and stuff. I can't get over this jealousy problem, and people tell me to get over it, and I just can't. It's not that easy. Please help me!!

2007-04-25 14:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and shes making me act like a super girly girl for a day.

and im not all into that stuff.

so what kinds of things should i do and where

2007-04-25 13:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by sam b 1

Ok, I have been best friends with my friend mia since the 6th grade. we are both in 11th grade now. some background info:

We've gone out twice (being a couple), have been as close as anything, and also been in times where we have barely speaken to each other. So our relationship is very rocky and i bit inconsistent but also the best thing in the world.

We can tell each other anything, being completely honest. We are so comfortable with each other and hung out all the time. In school, we would pass each other letters and text each other. and even when we were just friends, there were still some of those feeling from when we went out lingering. We would talk on the fone everyday for hours.

Lately, we havnt talked in 3 months. She is going out with the one kid i cant stand so she always is with him(obviously). and its been killing me and in school it seems lik she thinks nothing of it. i act lik its not killing me but deep down i miss our friendship. Any advise ....?

2007-04-25 13:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

looking around at some other questions it seems like almost everyone is asking how to tell if someone likes u. i want to no if i like him. he's a friend of 6 years. in the past few years he has started telling me about girls he likes and who he goes out with. we tend to flirt sometimes and share almost everything. because of that everyone was asking if we were dating or saying that we should before his girlfrend (now ex-gf). when he went out with her we kind of distanced ourselves. i'm really confused because i don't think i like him. it's so cliche, u no? but then i miss him when he isn't around and i like talking about him and to him. i don't want to date him. but do u think i might have a little crush on him?

2007-04-25 13:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i like this guy who goes to my class and he has a sister who is my BEST friend. she knows i like him and he knows too. me & him have known each other since 2nd grade but he dosen't like me yet! i have this other friend who talks s*** about him just because she went out with him and he dumped her.............so my real question is, should i play hard to get, or ask him out already????

2007-04-25 12:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by [[ yESSiR ]] 2

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2007-04-25 12:34:15 · 6 answers · asked by ........san francisco........... 1

2007-04-25 12:22:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

LONG STORY SHORT I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY AND HAVE BEEN FOR 12 YRS..I'M 24 NOW. HES 29.WE HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP ONLY SEXUAL.HE SAYS HE CARES A LOT ABOUT ME AND SAYS HE LOVES ME IN SOME WAYS AS WELL. HE SAYS TO ME I'M THAT GIRL, THE GIRL IN THE MOVIES AND IN THE SONGS. THE IT YOU LOOK FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE.. I'M THAT. YET HES SCARED TO BE WITH ME IN FEAR OF MESSING IT ALL UP...HES GOT A LOT OF ISSUES RIGHT NOW HES HAVING TO DEAL WITH. AND HE TELLS ME HE WOULD LIKE TO THINK THAT WHEN HE REACHES THE TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN ..I WILL BE THERE...HERES MY QUESTION....WE ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP YET HE DID JUST SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND IT HURT ME SO BAD...I AM FAITHFUL TO HIM EVEN THOUGH IM NOT WITH HIM. DO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE MAD AT HIM? PLUS HE SLEPT WITH THE MOST NASTYEST PERSON I KNOW AND SHES 41 AND NOW PREG BY 1-5 AND HES IN THE LIST.HES PAYING FOR THE ABORTION..AM I CHASING A DREAM? IM SO LOST AND SO HURT....WHAT DO I DO..

2007-04-25 12:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's not letting me make one, and when u answer could u put in ur email so i could e-mail u all the stuff i want? thanx! xoxo

2007-04-25 12:09:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this best friend that whenever it is just us, we are perfect. But whenever we are with other people, she either ignores me or i get really mad at her and i dont know why
what do i do

2007-04-25 11:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1

she is slow and she get on my nerves all the time and i think she deserves it he is my man and i love him hes like that with alot of my friends and family

2007-04-25 11:12:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone ever heard of two friends making 60 phone calls a month between the two of them or more, calling each other. Isn't that some sort of disorder? I know that is not normal.for two friends to call one another that many times a month.

2007-04-25 11:11:16 · 4 answers · asked by J.J. 1

How are you and will you sleep peacefully tonight do you think?

2007-04-25 10:46:34 · 26 answers · asked by Boudicca 3

my past child hood was great....but now at 13 i hate my life....will the future be better....or what can i do?

2007-04-25 09:51:26 · 5 answers · asked by jack j 1

Ok i am 14 years old-for 3 years my ex freind has harrassed me. She has shoved me into walls and threatend to kill me several times. Last year I took an overdose because i was so depressed. She has told rumors about me and lies. People hate me for no reason! i get rocks thrown at me! I have told the principal and the school counselor SEVERAL TIMES!! nobody wants to help me! And if i say something to her, I get into trouble!! She has called me a fat ***** everyday i have known her! I am sick of this I went from straight A student to a straight D student! my mom even called the cops on her before! Nothing is being done! i dont know what to do! I hate her. She has ruined my life! My friends tell me that she is still talkin crap about me behind my back! I cant take it anymore! I just want this to end! Any advice?

2007-04-25 09:36:26 · 23 answers · asked by sagittariusgurl_9 1

are hangin' out with a FRIEND of the opposite sex, and they start eyeing a guy or girl walking past you? And if so, why?

2007-04-25 09:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by oneradartwo 2

2007-04-25 09:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Shauna W 1

how do i make my family remember my birthday without telling them?
because they forget it all the time(my birthday is 2 days from today).

2007-04-25 09:16:34 · 9 answers · asked by me 2

in my school everyone is mean
especially boys they all hate me even if they don't know and think I'm a loser...
girls in my school act like barbies and stuff
there was this fat ugly boy that annoyed me since he got together with his gf...his gf hates me...he started being mean annoying and disgusting since he got together with her... one of my best friend is one of my friends and she is keeping her away from me talking bad about me...my friend started to be mean with me ... all people at my school are mean...especially this girl that has her bf who is one year younger than her who is in my grade...if her bf thinks I'm a loser everyone in my grade will think it...I wish things weren't so complicated... :(

2007-04-25 08:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by London92 1

My best friend's mom died of cancer last year when we were in 6th grade. I'm really close with her but i don't know what to say when ever topics of death,moms,cancer or things like that come up. I want to talk to her about it but we both get extremely sad all the time about it.

2007-04-25 08:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by colleeneybooboo 2

A few monts ago my friends started doing pot and they want me to.I don't think I want to. They also have gotten all these new frineds that know where to get it. And 2 of my friends need to go to collage and she is just spending her collage money on pot. What should i do?

2007-04-25 07:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by rayche888 1

ok well i have a boyfriend(mark) and i found out his friend (cris) likes me and ive liked cris 4 a long time but he broke up with my friend jessie 4 me but i said no cuz im going out with mark but i really want 2 go out with cris and i really love mark but now i dont know what 2 do so can any1 help me??o ya and jessie really likes cris and it would be wrong 2 go out with him unless she says its ok or something but i still need help

2007-04-25 06:43:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our daughters are 8 years old, and best friends. However, my neighbors daughter sometimes hits and pushes my daughter. I don't feel like my neighbor is firm enough with the situation, and often makes excuses: she's tired, she felt like your daughter wasn't following the rules, she just likes to be first, she just gets excited.............. I have heard them all. I am unsure about having my daughter play at their house anymore because if she does little to resolve the situation when I am around I am sure she does nothing when I am not around. I am friends with the mom, and have had two heart to heart talks with her but this behavior continues. This has even carried over to school. My heart is breaking for my daughter and I am tired of the mothers excuses. Help!

2007-04-25 06:12:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 05:14:17 · 33 answers · asked by angeleyes 2

i said (just to see what she thought) " i'm colpletely dropping you as a friend." She did NOT care. So were not friends anymore. She doesn't care about me. So i don't feel bead not caring about her. I don't really know what my question is i'm asking here but do you think we EVER have a chance of being JUST friends again? I wonder when she goes to high school and she doesn't have any friends. Maybe she'll call me or something. Idk. I miss being friends with her. But right now i need to give her a break. All of her friends that she is friends with now she isn't going to be with them so i guess she just wants to be with them for now. I don't really care. This is a sad story........Any comments answers or suggestions? Thank you

<3
Emily

2007-04-25 05:07:45 · 3 answers · asked by *Dancer* 2

I have been corresponding with someone for a while now and I have grown a fondness for her. The problem is, I've never seen a photo of her before. She claims to be a college student but types like an illiterate... lol. I know that's just a "front", though.

She says that she values our friendship but won't drop the spelling front (not that it matters but I do wish to know the "real" her). Come to think of it, the only thing I know of her is her full name. Do you think she's serious about this friendship or should I completely forget about her and move on with my life?

I've known her for about six months now. And we've only communicate via e-mail as of late. Your opinions will be very much appreciated, thank you.

2007-04-25 04:42:35 · 18 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6

2007-04-25 02:44:49 · 1 answers · asked by x51466 1

Yesterday at school this boy who hates me threw paper at me because one of the popular girls hate me and I went in the hallway and started to cry and 1 of the boys went in and told everyone I was crying and i've missed too many days of school due to being bullied and made fun of I went to the principal but they dont do much What should I do?And the popular girl wants to fight me 4 nothing that concerns them again

2007-04-25 01:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ecrush 1

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2007-04-25 01:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by buffy a 1

Im a chinese. I jus started work in a Jap Co. in Asia. I hv a male colleague from London which i find him smhow very special. He is the only Caucasian in our Co. He doesn't talk to our colleagues unnecessarily, unless related to work, n at times just simply greet gd morning to his dept colleagues. He seldom goes for lunch with our co. collegues and always eat alone unless he meet up with some caucasian friends outside. I am really very curious abt him but i dare not talk to him cos he speaks with a very strong accent. We hv not talk to each other ever before even many times we took the same lift (only the two of us in the lift). I also did not take the initiative to speak to him cos i wasn't sure how to begin the conversation. And also whenever i look at him he will quickly look away. Why is this so? i always thought that westerners are very open? in the sense very open to making friends etc. How come he is not? I really wonder how westerners behave cos i nv had a caucasian friend b4.

2007-04-25 00:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by megal 1