I have this best friend that whenever it is just us, we are perfect. But whenever we are with other people, she either ignores me or i get really mad at her and i dont know why
what do i do
2007-04-25 11:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-04-25 18:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like you are feeling left out! If that is not the case then you must be gay, and you probably feel a little jealous towards your friend having fun with everyone else. You need to find a balance to enjoy yourself with everyone else just as she does. It will get better. Also bring it to your friends attention that you feel a little left out that she doesn't make you feel included. Tell her you need her to pay just a little bit more attention to you when your hanging out with other people!
2007-04-25 11:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Tell your friend you feel left out and all alone when she ignores you. In a way, make her feel guilty she is ignoring you. Try to talk to her more, and make her other friends feel bad that they are leaving you out.
2007-04-25 12:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥M♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went throught the same thing, but I was the friend doing the ignoring. I learned that we needed to talk because I lost my best friend because of this. We still talk, but were not best buddies anymore. Please, dont let this happen to you. You need to sit her down and talk to her about it.
2007-04-25 11:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kaycee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if outside then talk to other friends, same promblem only friends really flirty and i deal with it since she goes around kissing guys on cheeks ,
just say r we bff bc bff r suppose to be on ur side not hanging out with others
2007-04-25 11:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rocker till life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bit--. Maybe she just wants to give others attention and you feel ignored?
2007-04-25 11:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sara B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, I have the same exact problem....I just take it and just keep going with our friendship..I guess I never realized someone else had the same problem!!..lol....I would just confront her about it or something...I honestly can't give you good advice..b/c I am in the same situation!!
2007-04-25 11:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Awesome Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her vent
2007-04-25 11:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by vandodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋