xbff issue #4 ...last one....?

Question

i said (just to see what she thought) " i'm colpletely dropping you as a friend." She did NOT care. So were not friends anymore. She doesn't care about me. So i don't feel bead not caring about her. I don't really know what my question is i'm asking here but do you think we EVER have a chance of being JUST friends again? I wonder when she goes to high school and she doesn't have any friends. Maybe she'll call me or something. Idk. I miss being friends with her. But right now i need to give her a break. All of her friends that she is friends with now she isn't going to be with them so i guess she just wants to be with them for now. I don't really care. This is a sad story........Any comments answers or suggestions? Thank you

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Emily

Answer 1

Emily, ouch, classic sad friends story, ouchie!!! But lets dig alittle deeper here, you need to understand it wasn't just the distance, it wasn't just you guys having new friends. This is about not growing together. You guys were close yes, but when it came down to communicating and talking you guys failed each other, and that hurts the most. It isn't ether of your guys faults, but unfornatunely one would have to admit it. Also your relationship never develop a purpose outside of hanging out, not good! The world needs friendship whose purpose it is to help each other thru bs, to help each other grow, to help each other know the other isn't lonely anymore. Yea your right she did lock down on you, but you also let her. The other thing to is that you began to think as if you couldn't relate to her anymore and she felt the same about you, which is complete bs. I'm a 25 year old male, I've got friends acrossed the board from 59 year old women to 12 year old kiddos. It's about understanding yourself too and about empathsizing with the other. The distance just broke the relationships weakest leak, even when you guys were close, you still lived seperate lives, still keep secerts. You said it yourself, even if you were honest, you let her not be. But we all have that frist few big friendships that help teach us about the true nature of them. The second answers pretty close to the truth, she'll be back, you well see her again, anything that touches the heart scars it and you can't erase scars. You'll always be somewhere in her heart just as you well always have her. Its right to give it some space, grow beyond the box that this world gives you, and come back a better Emily and a stronger person, and the next time you see her, maybe you'll say what you met to say, without worry about if she felt the same way, good luck

Answer 2

she might come back some day but the question is u will have other friends by then.

Answer 3

well i'd say forget her
u dont need friends like that