I have a good friend and co-worker who is overweight and not very attractive. She could be pretty if she took more care of her appearance, but she does not brush her teeth, comb her hair, or wear nice, clean clothes. It's one thing when we're chit-chatting at work, but she is always pushing for me to go out with her, for margaritas after work, or to the casino. To be honest, I am embarrased to go out with her. I did go out with her once, and it was so ackward for both of us... the guys were all hitting on me and barely noticing her, even though she is single and I am married (and I had my wedding ring on, of course!) It is not a question of money since we both make the same salary... I think she is just clueless! I tried to help her to change but she said - this is who I am. Does anyone have a friend like this? Am I shallow to be embarrased to be seen with her? What would you do in these circumstances?
2007-04-28
09:19:15
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kallista
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