I am feeling frustrated, irritated and angry. Some so called friends used me like a door mat. Before I thought I would just make distance with them. But now I feel angry with myself and with them also. Bcoz they dont even care a damn for me where I let them use me.
I want to take revenge. Do u think I should make distance or I should take revenge?
2007-04-27 08:38:31 · 31 answers · asked by friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can understand how are u feeling. But spare them if u had really loved them anytime. For sure they will miss u and thats their punishment when they realised they lost the diamon while collecting stones.
2007-04-27 08:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by smile always 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer. You would only be taking the time out of your day to avenge something that's in your nature. When your friends call you a door mat. That's just there way of putting you down because they are jelious of what you got!
2007-04-27 15:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think revenge is a bad idea. you always end up worse then how you started. some distance is probably best but make sure you have other friends to talk to if you take some distance, because you could get very lonely and you start to wish you were friends with them again even if they use you like a doormat. (believe me i know)
2007-04-27 19:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by rachel v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can actually take revenge by distancing yourself, sometimes it hurts more to be ignored after all they may be expecting a reaction i wouldn`t give them that satisfaction. An old saying is" revenge is a meal best eaten cold".
2007-04-27 15:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by McCanns are guilty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take revenge, i would try talking to them before you make any rash decisions. Tell them how you are feeling and then if you still feel the same then try and keep your distance.
2007-04-27 18:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by kb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, don't stoop down to that low level of revenge. The best revenge is to stay away from them and for them to see that you are doing fine without them.
This is not the last time someone will try to use you, it is in your best interest to try to spot the people who would do that.
Be strong.
2007-04-27 16:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hagaar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly where you are coming from.....
I had to learn the hard way, about who my true friends were.....turns out, I ended up wasting all of my good memories on all of them but one, who I distanced myself away from because all she wanted to do was party and not grow up.
I don't have any good friends now, and I find it hard to trust anyone anymore these days.
My advice to you would be to just distance yourself from them. Stooping to their level, and lowering your standards to seek revenge on them isn't worth it, and it will only look bad on your part in the end....making them look good in other people's eyes.
Hang in there.....it will get better.
2007-04-27 15:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Connors! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance, forget them, they were never friends in the first place if they did you wrong like that. Chalk it up as an experience and learn from it and don't let it happen again. Just another life lesson dear. Some of them just aren't very pleasant.
2007-04-27 15:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sr. Mary Holywater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid negative reations like revenge it will only make things worse. It is best to learn from this experience and move on. I would keep a low profile for a bit.
2007-04-27 15:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by j_emmans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some distance between you and these so called friends revenge is never a good thing
2007-04-27 15:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT make revenge, just stay away from them. they obviously are a waste of time so you should just stay away. if you take revenge, however that may be, it can end up in bad consequences for you. save your time, find real friends. don't even bother with those losers.
2007-04-27 15:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by TORiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋