I sometimes like loneliness but I don't like it everytime...because ı am a student and am far from my family,ı am tired of being alone in my life...I miss my family and I don't wanna be alone anymore ....
2007-04-28 09:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should join some sort of club, volunteer work or get a part time job. It might seem scary at first but you will meet alot of people who have interests like yours.
2007-04-28 09:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by icingonthecake 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. I enjoy being alone because it gives me time to reflect on recent activity. I am comfortalbe with my life and myslef.
Lonliness is a completly different issue. It occurs when I have an abudance of alone time and have done all the reflecting needed. That is the time when I need to get out and be among friends. I need to remember that a freindly atmosphere is sufficient even if I dont know anyone there.
It looks to me as though you are at a crossroads in your life. Try getting out more and meeting people in friendly atomspheres such as coffee houses or restaurants with busy lobbies. Perhaps starting your own family will be the ultimate cure for your loneliness. Hopefully you wll discover a solution to you dilema. Good Luck
2007-04-28 10:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by DAVID C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a student far from home too. but i've learnt to cope with loneliness.
you see, there is a difference between loneliness and solitude.
loneliness is when you want to be in the company of others but find yourself alone. or you can be in a crowd of people and still feel lonely because you don't emotionally connect with anyone around. hence the term 'alone in a crowd'
you can cope with loneliness and home sickness by opening yourself to other people. student life is very enriching for me. i learn a lot from ppl of other cultures. just make friends. i know it sounds simpler than it is, but here, so far away from home; i find the company of my friends comforting.
solitude is when you enjoy isolating yourself from everyone else. solitude is something you enjoy. we sometimes feel the need to be alone in order to reflect. no one likes loneliness. solitude can be good.
hang in there. there are a lot of people in your situation.
2007-04-28 09:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it "lonliness" but yes, I enjoy being alone most of the time. Of course sometimes I get bored and want to be around people, but most of the time I like to be by myself.
2007-04-28 10:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sunrayye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is always with you. Go to church - there are lots of people there and maybe you can make some friends.
2007-04-28 09:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then go home and go to school there
2007-04-28 09:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way
2007-04-28 09:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by baumgartner16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋