I have been throught a lot in the past 18 months and I won't bore you with the details,but among the other items that I had to deal with were some people who I discovered were'nt as good as a friend as I thought they would be. When they had hard times,emotionally,financially, whatever,I was there for them;to help or just to listen. When things started getting bad for me, and I began to withdraw,at first I wanted to talk to no one.Later on, as some things were resolved I realized how few people checked on me,asked after me,or even tried to help me. People I thought I could count on vanished,and those that I had treated badly were actually the ones who helped me. Yes, they were my true friends,who stuck by me no matter what,but who I neglected.
Now some of the others are acting like nothing has ever happened,like they did'nt ignore me,like they were there when I needed them. My friends say be the bigger person,let it go...but I am tired of keeping it in. What do you think?
2007-01-24
05:54:16
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desertskieswoman
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