On one hand Ive know this guy for 4 years, mind you besides the idle boy girl attraction we've always use to get along great. But then we get through these periods of never talking to each other and then when we finally do he acts really close. On one hand I love being his friend because I like to protect him and hes such a carefree and fun person but on the otherside I feel that i am being taken advantage of since I always try to do him favores to make him happy and i never ask anything in return but at times it gets so bad I dont tell him but I cry at some of the jokeful things he says. At times I feel he's selfish because he really only does care about himself but who doesnt now a days?
2007-01-24 04:45:35 · 2 answers · asked by jjjj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's only reacting this way because he doesn't know how you feel. How can you expect him to change and to treat you better if he is being led to believe that you not only feel fine about the things he says but you enjoy your relationship the way it is. You can't be mad at him for not knowing when you're refusing to tell him. If you get along so well and the friendship is there than you should be able to sit him down and talk about you for a change. You've done a lot for him, he'll listen to you.
2007-01-24 04:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships are supposed to be beautiful, they are supposed to make you stronger, not weaker.
I in your shoes would tell this person my feelings and if they do not accept them walk away.
Yes, it is easier said than done, but in the end it might save you a lot of pain.
2007-01-24 13:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sachu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋