when i was 16 i had a baby and the chick said it wasn´t mine. when i was 18 i had a girl popping up on my door step with a baby and she said that theres a chance that he could be mine. we´ll that same chick used to buy me everything from clothes to alcohol, but she turned out pregnet again and the baby came out lite though me and her are sort of brownish, . when i was 22 i had and i could say it with joy " a beutiful baby girl" i know that she´s mine but since i have maybe three more i can´t really enjoy being a father, i feel that i have no opinion and that the whole world couljust look down on me, i´m 24 and i hate life cause since i feel this way i let people bring me down and thatks to that i lost my beutiful wife and family. anyboy want to say some word´s that could help me out before i breakout.
2007-01-24 06:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
son, you have to set things right. get a paternity test to clear your conscience. you shouldn't feel down. don't tell me that those who judge you are perfect? of course not. none of us are. only fools can believe that. don't think too much about how others think about you. just keep being a good person. that's all really you can do.
2007-01-24 06:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Maury show and demand paternity test. I would wonder if they were mine too. As far as her buying you stuff I don't see where that is relevant. But if you have lost your wife then go get some help from a counselor. You need to get your head up and get your life straight. But all the answers you get one here can't do it for you. You have to make the first steps. You already said you let people bring you down. Go get some help you deserve to be happy in this life. Good luck!
2007-01-24 06:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the rest of you people the boy ask for advice.He knowes he has done wrong and wants to do the right thing. Lets see what we can do to help.!st.off you can and should get test to find out if you are indeed the father of the children.Do it for them.You sound like a good person.Don't worry about what other people think.God is the only one that don't make mistakes If they are in fact your children then take responsibility for them.
You would be a great Father to them.Good luck my friend. Don't make anymore children out of wedlock.
2007-01-24 06:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a father doesn't depend on how many children you have its about being there and giving as much time as possible that you can for each one. If you do that then no one can look down on you.
2007-01-24 06:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one did this to you. You did this to yourself. You want advice? Quit whining and take responsibility for your actions. Condoms are a good thing, they prevent this from happening.
2007-01-24 06:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
every one makes mistakes, try to work things out w/ your wife. talk to a doc and get on some antidepressants. good luck
2007-01-24 06:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where was your wit before all this happened? You are now responsible for all your deeds.... Your girlfriend, kids, wife & family... its all your responsibility. Dont produce more kids & take care of all...
2007-01-24 06:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get Dna tests, Get right with God and yourself and learn how to respect yourself and women and you will be a better man.
2007-01-24 06:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to learn to use protections when you have sex - you need to decide what is more important - sex with just anyone - or with that particular someone!@~
2007-01-24 06:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SH IT HAPPENS ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS KEEP BREATHING, MOMENT TO MOMENT PAST IS PAST, AND STRIPCLUBS ARE FUN, 2 POINTS
2007-01-24 06:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋