I'm 16 and so is my friend we think that her bf who is 19 is only wit her b/c he wants sex and they have been having a sexual relationship since october now and she thinks that if she winds up prego he will stay with her but i think that once he turns twenty one or realizes that what he has is wat he dosn't want he will leave her no matter the cercumstances He wants her 2 graduate early and she dosn't want to and she wants to get a job but he has told her no once she is 18 they want to get married and she thinks he'll let her do wat she wants like go to college but he dosn't want her do n'e thing but b with him. I think she realize it wen it's way to l8te what should i do or say to her??
2007-01-24 06:11:02 · 7 answers · asked by LOVE YOU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girl, your friend's boyfriend is a control freak and unless he has a GREAT paying job PLUS she has a comfortably submissive personality that falls into his groove perfectly--she should leave.
It sounds to me that she wants to attend college. It also sounds to me that he is gonna make her eat crap for even wanting to. Not to mention, what if she enrolls and he goes batcrap crazy.
She should NOT allow herself to be impregnated by him at all.
Warning signs are there, do what you can to make this stop because your friend is looking at a few years of nightmarish hell not to mention you will be the first to go in his book along with all her other friends.
CONTROL FREAK with megalomaniac attributes spells trouble.
2007-01-24 06:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by freakazoid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to have her mind set! You can express how you feel, but don't press the issue. She feels grown up and she is not going to allow you to make her decisions. You just have to stick by her no matter her choices. Your her friend, to be there when she needs you. She won't appreciate you trying to run her life. EVERYONE has to make their own mistakes no matter the advise they are given. Just pray that this guy is good to her. If she is having sex than it is more serious than you would like to admit. She will learn a good lesson from this or you will. Y'all are young but I was there too. I had a baby when I was 17 and no one could tell me I was wrong not that I was trying to get prego. But I never thought I should listen to anyones advise when I was that age! I hope all turns out fine.
2007-01-24 14:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both sound very immature. Unfortunately there is not much you can do. If you try to you may be accused of trying to break them up because you want him.
Stay out of it. Just be there for her when her world does come crashing down around her as it will.
2007-01-24 14:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by mutvulture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please tell her to make sure she uses protection when she has sex. She has absolutely no idea what she is getting herself into, and the odds are very strong that if he got her pregnant, then he would bail on her. That is totally unfair to a baby and there are enough fatherless children in our society as it is.
Yes, he is after sex only.
2007-01-24 14:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Support her. What ever happens you will still be there.
2007-01-24 14:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ı think your are very sesxy and you become with me
2007-01-24 14:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Temha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her to my house so she can sit on my lap
2007-01-24 14:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋