I'm 15 and my best friend is 14 she started dating a guy 17 almost 18 and although the age difference is wierd I thought they were good together. That was back in November. Now, she's kind of changed. We dont go to the same school only the same church so we see each other twice a week, but we used to talk on the phone every day. She used to be the one who would mostly call me but now if i call her she answers like 50% of the time and if she doesnt answer she'll never call back even if i leave a voicemail. She doesnt want to talk as long and she only wants to hang out if she doesnt have other plans, even if we made our plans first...i tried telling her that she changed but she said she hasnt and she hasnt done anything about it. what should i do? Sorry this is so long...
2007-01-24 06:10:15 · 3 answers · asked by Blaire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know that they'll break up(sad to say...)and she'll come running back. But, I hate how she is now. is there anything i can do now? like anything i can say to her?
2007-01-24 06:21:18 · update #1
Life is one big learning experience. SHE has to learn HER lessons, and YOU have to learn YOURS. Unfortunately, no one else can learn our lessons FOR us.
If you REALLY value her friendship, let her learn her own lessons. The more you try to guide her, the more she will probably pull away from you. After all, I'm sure you don't like to be dictated to either (most people don't).
Have you ever heard the common saying, "If you love something set if free. If it comes back to you it is yours. If it doesn't, it never was"? It's true, and it applies here.
As long as your friend is not in danger, the best way for you to be her friend is just to leave her alone at this time.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-24 06:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Renee D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she does call you dont answer even if you really want to. when she does start talking to you be like," ooh now you want to talk to me,well im sorry but i got other things to do. then talk to her and tell how you feel, and make other friends. Then she will feel alone, And when you know she is feeling alone. Go up to her and be like know you know how it feels to have your best friend bail on you.
2007-01-24 15:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by brittany t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you should just confront her about how you feel tell her the problems when you have a chance
2007-01-24 14:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by *emokisses<3* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋