Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

i bought him a gift-he said he only wanted me as his gift..i told him that i am accustomed to sharing holidays with my bf and if we cannot be together it is nice to be thought of. I told him that I spent alot of time and thought on his gift from the heart. and i had hoped the same from him. I told him i guess i expected too much.

he responded by saying the following:

"Thanks for the spanking..I'll give you the space you need :-("

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN???

2007-12-31 07:12:28 · 9 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl and we both like each other but its still new enough that calling her feels awkward and we cant figure out anything to do together. she lives a half hour from me and i rly want this to work out, what should i do and where do i go from here?

2007-12-31 07:12:09 · 12 answers · asked by DONALD M 1 in Singles & Dating

Do girls really care about looks? Every girl I've asked said it doesn't matter to them. I was like "what?". I don't really care what I look like to be honest. I keep myself up but I don't go out of my way to make myself "Pretty." I mean, I'm average. At least I think so. I'm 6'3, skinny, chestnut brown hair, brownish green eyes, olive skin tone, and a hell of a personality. I do have a bit of redness on my face from minor acne I had a long time ago but it's not to bad. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm not the "Oh, let's get a facial and a manicure" pretty boy pansie *** type. I'm a dude and I act like a dude. But yeah, I get looks from girls all the time. I can't seem to figure out why. I'm nothing special. I'm not the type that spends all his money on mall clothes just so I can have self confidence. I already have confidence. I don't need any more. Why do I get looks girls all the time? I always thought you had to be a pretty boy for girls to like you. Am I wrong or something?

2007-12-31 07:11:29 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At What Age do you Consider a Male To Be Old And Why ?

2007-12-31 07:10:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Currently I'm married but before that I had 4 serious relationships....and a bunch of others that weren't so serious but interesting to say the least.

2007-12-31 07:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce

where
age
when (day or night)

2007-12-31 07:06:41 · 20 answers · asked by ... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday my bf told me he loves me very much and today he broke up with me... when he did it, we were in his car and his eyes were cold as ice, there was no feeling in there, does this mean he means it? I do want him back... when I wanted to touch his hand, he pulled his hand back and said its over

2007-12-31 07:05:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i had an argument with my girlfriend this weekend about cursing in front of children. She has three boys 13, 11, 8. I have a 4 year old. My complaint was that sometimes she curses at her children, An example would be telling her 13 year old to shut the f*** up. I understand that the 13 year old has the 13 year old mouth on him, but am I wrong for bringing this topic up. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and it is something that really bothers me.

2007-12-31 07:05:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 07:05:07 · 22 answers · asked by Stella 3 in Weddings

I know a lot of my buddies and myself are "good guys" But alot of them, including myself at times. Have a hard time finding and attracting well rounded level headed attractive young women. Whats missing from the formula?

2007-12-31 07:04:56 · 62 answers · asked by Alex C 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 y/o guy and in my second semester of college and never kissed or touched a girl at all. I think girls are really attractive just always to shy and no girl ever interested in me. I like many things but the one thing I have done most my life is box. I am damn good at it too when I was about 15 started sparring guys most were 40 pounds + over my weight and in there 20s. Boxing has been natural for me unlike girls. So I will probably go pro. haha so I guess I got off topic just how much I like boxing. ALright so I think its time I just gave up hope on ever finding a girl. I have never even been able to talk to girls much. I dont know I guess I was just meant to be alone. I dont know there is just a part of me that is always thinking about girls and some day getting married. I am slowly getting rid of that feeling though. NO girl has ever been interested and I think its time to just forget aboutit and move on. What do you think?????

2007-12-31 07:03:47 · 1 answers · asked by I like to drink 1 in Singles & Dating

do you have a wife that dossent put out if so why ?

2007-12-31 07:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do gurls care what kind of clothing guys wear, like...wearing those things made in italy, the classy stylish stuff, or wat about teh sports? do gurls turned on by guys who r rele into watching football nd stuff?

wat stuff do gurls look for in a guys personality/taste

2007-12-31 07:02:07 · 10 answers · asked by thefirstamerican 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people say that he likes me too..but im not sure :(
so i wanna try to make him notice me...

2007-12-31 07:01:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful husband and all but when it comes to romance
it's DULL !! We have three wonderful children !! All our time revolves around working,cleaning and them !!any advice for us ?

2007-12-31 07:01:23 · 36 answers · asked by Sarah Sugar butt 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance & I have been living together for about 5 months now. I moved into his home. I do pay part of the rent & provide all of the groceries for the household. However, I feel like he treats me like a child, & that my vote doesn't count. Our home is heated by propane & he is constantly riding me about what the temperature is set at in the house. He likes to keep it at about 62 degrees, but I sometimes get cold, so I will turn it up a couple of degrees (maybe to about 65 or 67 or something). It's getting to the point where I have to sleep with three blankets, flannel pajamas, & two pairs of socks on...but I still sometimes freeze. I mean last night my toes were numb. He also throws a fit if a light is left on for more than 5 minutes, & whines about the cat being in the house. Even if I'm sitting & petting the cat, he'll grab the cat & toss him out without saying a word to me.

I need some opinions here. Is he a control freak? Should I try to work this out or not? I'm fed up!!

2007-12-31 07:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by dmh1973 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i found out that my friends cousin liked me and we hang out all the time so its alittle weird

But the other day we were all hanging out and my friend went to the bathroom and her cousin FULL FLEG LIP POCKED ME! i kinda like him to but my friend think it'd be weird if we went out. BUT the kiss was AMAZING! what should I do

2007-12-31 06:58:57 · 7 answers · asked by Hayle J 1 in Singles & Dating

I watched some myself for a short period of time, but I wasn't really into it like that. Then I make an attempt for us to watch it together and he didn't care for it. Now, I found out he's been watching it & did NOT tell me... So, why do I NOT like it? How should I feel? Is that okay? Should we try watching it together (since he's been doing it)? He said he'll stop if I'm uncomfortable, but it's more that he kept it from me!

2007-12-31 06:58:29 · 13 answers · asked by 2012 will be a great year 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends have said they have some ecstasy pills that I can have at their new years party. I have a crate of beer and would like to have a pill as well. Is this a good idea? I will only be doing it for this one occasion or at celebrations. I know some of the people at the party but some others will be strangers. What do you think?

2007-12-31 06:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So 4 months ago my best friend told me that she added this boy on myspace that she thought I would think is really cute. So I started talking to him and I just really started to like him, and I just felt like he was honestly the perfect boy, the one just right for me. We never stopped talking. But even tho I heard his voice on the phone he didn't seem real. Well my other friend put me on a blind date, and what do you know we started dating. But I only liked him. Nothing more. But I almost felt in love with myspace boy. But I dated him anyways because myspace boy was just a fictional character. Well, yesterday, I met myspace boy, and he IS perfect. Just the way I felt around him, how he made me feel. I'd never felt that with anyone else before. But now what do I do. It will be months till I see him again, but I my BF is in love with me, and I don't love him. How do I break up with him and tell him that I'm in love with someone Ive only me once. I know I should have never dated him. Help

2007-12-31 06:56:54 · 5 answers · asked by Jess. 1 in Singles & Dating

help! he wants to speak with parents at the house im staying at, there wont be any there!

2007-12-31 06:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like theres this complete strancer who is scottish and has a huge mole, and is really funny and im attracted to him, has this happened to you?

2007-12-31 06:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a question about my parenting plan. Does the cevaluator come up with a parenting plan that she reccomends to the court? or does she create a document about us as parents and that is presented to the court and a parenting plan is developed from that by the judge, us and our lawyers.
My daughter's father was abusive toward me in our marriage. After reviewing all of my evidence, I feel confident that the evaluation will come out favorably toward me.
But I am afraid of my x. I am afraid for my current husband and his children too because they live in our household. While married to him he did threaten to kill me on more than one occasion. I have reason to believe that there could be a real danger if his custody or visitation is changed.
Can I ask the custody evaluator to request a PO for me and my family? There was never one granted. My lawyer is conservative and feared that if we asked for one and it was denied that the initial request for one could look like I am vindictive.

2007-12-31 06:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by superchick2314 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you are out in public, do you look at couples and wonder...wow, how did he get her? Like if you see a good looking girl with a ok guy? Do you ever think to yourself...that you look better then he does...and that you should be with her and not him? ~just curious~

2007-12-31 06:50:38 · 22 answers · asked by ~Goosey~ 2 in Singles & Dating

i reguarly use this chat room where i have made many nice friends, its a clean chat room, and any s e x talk is banned (maybe not in private) though i hardly talk in private unless a friend has a problem or query.
my husband doesnt like me doing so, especially cus i never chat online in front of him becus i think thats a bit rude. (manner way). i go chat wen i come from work 8pmcus hes still at work til 1030pm so i hav nothin to do!
once when i did chat in front of him a person i knew was in private chat and he was askin me where i work and though i told him im married and not to flirt with me he said 'bet u look sexy in ur uniform' my husband went mad, thinkin all sorts. i told this person and he was really sorry by then it was too late. i ALWAYS make sure everyone knows im married so its not like i pretend to be available. i dont like to go on in front of him cus if i enter + a male says hi and 'xxx' then he thinks there 'is somethin goin on' please help, any views r appreciated.xx

2007-12-31 06:46:34 · 41 answers · asked by [вαвÿ løṿε] 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So, this past weekend I went to go visit my fiance's parents. This trip was meant to just be a time where they could gte to know me and my 2-year-old boy. Also, My fiance's dad is our minister for the wedding (he also married both of my fiance's sisters). This weekend, however, ended up being a nightmare. His dad read us the ceremony he prepared without us, and it included about 5 passages from the bible that he beleives in, but I dont. (note: I am Catholic, and their family is Born-Agains) So now, because the ceremony is suppose to be in my parents backyard, my dad is furious about the passages (stuff about a helphand? and man is higher than woman???). Finally, I just asked my fiance if he could tell his dad to eliminate all passages he had, and that him and I should look for them ourselves, to find some that better describe us. Did I do the right thing? Anyone have any other suggestions for what I could do? (sorry this is so long :( )

2007-12-31 06:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by itiswednesday 1 in Weddings

2007-12-31 06:44:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife just turned 35 in april. Everything was normal untill we got a new toy for her. it was larger than the first and feel more real. since then she seems to be hornier than she has ever been. we have been together for 13 years. is this just her peak coming on or is it the new toy?

2007-12-31 06:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by bdc32 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in the lunch line with my friend and i was all who is dallas jones? everybodies always talking about him, and this boy standing infont of my turns arounds looks at me and leaves. And then my friend was all thas him.


And every since that day everytime i walk by him he always glares at me.

and my friends or the person that im walking doem teh hall with will notice that. they're alwasy like why is he staring at you like that and im just like IDK.

ITS KINDA SCARY. and we dont even knwo eachother

2007-12-31 06:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is seperated from his wife that moved back to N.C.
He is living in Al. and she said that he can not get his son and take him out of state? he has been sending Child suport every week. Can she do this?

2007-12-31 06:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by brenda t 1 in Marriage & Divorce