I know a lot of my buddies and myself are "good guys" But alot of them, including myself at times. Have a hard time finding and attracting well rounded level headed attractive young women. Whats missing from the formula?
2007-12-31 07:04:56 · 62 answers · asked by Alex C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They intentionally go for "bad guys" so they can say every guy they have dated was horrible.
2007-12-31 07:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
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2016-10-10 17:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you? haha
Well what the question I have for you, is what makes you think your a good man?
2007-12-31 08:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
interstin question, i like good guys , but some people like pain so they choose bad guys
2007-12-31 07:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be where your're meeting women. If it's at a club or a bar it's obviously not going to the type wanting a good guy.
2007-12-31 07:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by princess_nubia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm I was just asking myself that for me not being able to find a nice gentleman for someone in my age group! I would think that some of these girls (in the 20's) are spoiled brats - daddy gave them everything, and they expect it from you. My son is 28, and boy did he have some doozy rich B's. For some reason, my son wanted a girl from a well-to-do family, even though we're down-to-earth people. He's still not found anyone.
I suggest you get involved in a 'hobby' that gives you interaction with females (ballroom dancing, volunteering at a museum), this way you'll have something in common with a young lady.
2007-12-31 07:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Empress Jan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because we feel that the "bad men" are more exciting and we can change them anyways (which we all know we can't) might have something to do with it. Also the "bad guys" we feel are unattainable so when we get them it's like we scored something...but I heard that good guys finish first...so wait it will happen for you.
2007-12-31 07:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
American women, in particular, are attracted to power and wealth. While it is possible to be wealthy and a good person (though it's not easy), being powerful and a good person is really a challenge... power is usually gained at the expense of other.
American women are raised to seek maximum advantage. To be bitches, in fact. It's what their celebrities do, it's what the women on their soaps do, it's what they think is right.
2007-12-31 07:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
what area you from? i want one
2007-12-31 07:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Don 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Are you attractive? Do you have a job, car, house? Or do you live with mama? How's your personality? A person could be a "good guy" all he wants, but if he has nothing going for himself...pointless.
2007-12-31 07:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because some women just like BAD BOYZ, not me though! I really like smart and intelligent guys who are civilized =)
2007-12-31 07:07:28 · answer #11 · answered by ♫~ŞЎĽPҢ~♪ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋