yesterday my bf told me he loves me very much and today he broke up with me... when he did it, we were in his car and his eyes were cold as ice, there was no feeling in there, does this mean he means it? I do want him back... when I wanted to touch his hand, he pulled his hand back and said its over
2007-12-31 07:05:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him I didnt feel good and wanted to go home and he said I was ruining new years eve and that I could rest at his place too so we could be together, but I wanted to be alone cus I had a pain... then he told me he finds me selfish, that he isnt happy anymore lately when he is with me and that I always want things my way,
2007-12-31 07:23:35 · update #1
uno__yy what do u mean with " he wanted to you to play your part in new years eve, but is to cruel to say those words to you?"
2007-12-31 08:23:12 · update #2
As painful as it may feel or sound, your boyfriend has moved on and you are no longer in his radar sights.You also may not like the way he ended it but there is no good way to end a relationship.While you may still like him, want to be with him, or not understand why he ended it, you are much better off moving on.As you indicated, his eyes were cold as ice and he recoiled from your touch;what more does he have to say or do before you get it. I can't begin to say that I know your pain; however, I know you are hurting bad hence, I advise you to depend on your family, friends, and even the people here at Yahoo Answers to help get over this guy and get a much better life.Though it might sound like a cliche, there are tons of decent and nice guys out there just waiting for a nice gal like you.So go get them tiger.
2007-12-31 07:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay. i'm kinda in yer situation where he wanna break up with me but instead of me accepting it..i'm forcing our relationship...i'm very clingy...i guess he was my first longest reationship....and i know it's very very hard. but you know...life goes on..and you'll find somebody who will love and cherish you. It will take time to heal....as day go by ..you'll get a lil better.
2007-12-31 17:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to feel that you wanted to go home for a rest. I would do the same too, particularly when it all came in a sudden.
He wanted to you to play your part in the new year's eve and go to his house, but he is too cruel to say those words to you.
I'm more concerned about you, I'm not concerned about him at all. I think he is self centred!
So take care at this day, don't think too much about it. When you two are feeling better, get him to talk about it. he said you've always wanted to do things your way, perhaps it's time to revisit yourself, whether for him, for your own good, or for your next relationship.
Happy new year.
2007-12-31 15:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by uno_yy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONSIDER IT OVER,AND GOOD RIDDANCE TO HIM,FIND SOMEONE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU,NO GUY SHOULD TREAT HIS GIRL LIKE THAT.
2007-12-31 15:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by josephrob2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over.
When people make themselves cold and hard and then they tell you it's over, it's over. He acted like this, because he wouldn't be able to breakup with you if he tried a different approach. There could a be a multitude of reasons as to why he wants to break up, but the bottom line is that he wants to break up.
2007-12-31 15:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by CatNip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. Do yourself a favor and do not attempt to get back with him. Sounds like you’re young and I do not want you to be one of the types that grow in to believing that relationships are filled with drama. Keep focused on what you need to do in life and when the moment is right you will meet people that wants to be with you and do not have any intentions of hurting you,…….. But are motivated to respect you.
2007-12-31 15:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by sbyumabaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess he means it and to change that quickly he either has some one else already or heard something about you that upset him. I would forget it and move on-if the first is right he will come back when they break up if he does care about you and then would do it again after a while since you'll take him back and if it is the second he doesn't trust you enough to see if what he heard was right or wrong so it would never work long term anyway.
2007-12-31 15:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by GunnyC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird...he will live to regret it...maybe not for years..but it will always be there....have a break till you feel ready then..try again...there is love in the world for us all.
2007-12-31 15:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when they say its over, its over.
Sounds like you did somthing wrong,
call him and talk to him
2007-12-31 15:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something to make such a difference in a day?Sounds like he has heard something from someone to upset him. Did you try to ask him what he was upset about? I think if he is not willing to share what the problem is, then you need to walk away.
2007-12-31 15:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋