So 4 months ago my best friend told me that she added this boy on myspace that she thought I would think is really cute. So I started talking to him and I just really started to like him, and I just felt like he was honestly the perfect boy, the one just right for me. We never stopped talking. But even tho I heard his voice on the phone he didn't seem real. Well my other friend put me on a blind date, and what do you know we started dating. But I only liked him. Nothing more. But I almost felt in love with myspace boy. But I dated him anyways because myspace boy was just a fictional character. Well, yesterday, I met myspace boy, and he IS perfect. Just the way I felt around him, how he made me feel. I'd never felt that with anyone else before. But now what do I do. It will be months till I see him again, but I my BF is in love with me, and I don't love him. How do I break up with him and tell him that I'm in love with someone Ive only me once. I know I should have never dated him. Help
2007-12-31 06:56:54 · 5 answers · asked by Jess. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you calling him your boyfriend when you're not in love with him. Are you 2 just casual dating? Nevertheless, if your feelings aren't mutal with his, he has a right to know....as painful as it might be to you and him. Now about the myspace guy, be careful, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
2007-12-31 07:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by CARFIX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes, how would you want to be treated?
Woudn't you want to know the truth? and have the opportunity to find someone else instead of being kept on hold while your supposedly boyfriend is falling in love with someone else.
Do the right thing and let him go. Then you can decide if you want to pursue the other relationship. You shouldn't be with someone just because you don't want to be alone. that isn't fair. if you don't have the same levels of feelings for each other, then put it to rest.
2007-12-31 07:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Doodles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no set amount of times you have to meet someone in order to go out with them instead. Telling the BF is WAY, WAY, WAY better than making sure it's tight with you and Myspace boy before you cut BF. That'd be wrong.
Weigh what you've got with BF versus what you've got with Myspace boy, and hear this: don't just go on feelings. Feelings of love and happiness level out, but if there's nothing substantial beyond that, you're in for a bad plunge.
2007-12-31 07:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by mmaxinya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....you have woven a very complicated web. To be with "mr. perfect myspace boy" you have to break up with your boyfriend. Now, the best advice I can give you is that you need to let him go. Sit him down, but don't tell him about myspace boy beacsue you really are just friends. Tell him: "I think you're a great guy, and I really like you, but I don't think you're my type. I don't think we would work out but which ever girl you choose after me is very lucky to have you". Then you should meet up with myspace boy and aim for friendship before diving into a relationship but don't forget about your ex-boyfriend. Be a good friend and show support. If you really don't like being with your ex then slowly start pulling away, don't leave him immedeatly. Good luck :)
2007-12-31 07:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Ohmizzy ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just you need some time to slow things a bit... need to spend more time with family, girl friends, don't mention the other guy. Its not him, hes awesome and you are so lucky that he is so understanding, etc... follow up with a nice compliment. Other guys may spark your interest as well, so just end it for now,,, asking for time allows you to go back to him later if you change your mind.
2007-12-31 07:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by chequemate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋