Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

My wife & I have agreed to get divorced, but we're not even sure where to begin! 1 income instead of 2, child support, joint custody...so much to think about!

2007-03-24 16:18:45 · 10 answers · asked by Philip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend always jokes around with corny nicknames for me, like "sugar muffin," etc., and I can never think of any in return. Any ideas?

2007-03-24 16:18:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need friends from around the world.

2007-03-24 16:18:34 · 10 answers · asked by syaz 1 in Friends

I'm 13 and fat and i have never had a boyfriend. Im really want a boyfriend

2007-03-24 16:18:32 · 18 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl is talking to me online and says she wants to sit with me and talk at the next time she sees me (at a meeting for a youth sort of thing) does that mean anything?

2007-03-24 16:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

If I was with another woman and him at the same time? I just don't get it. Don't most guys dream of this kind of encounter?

2007-03-24 16:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 16:17:13 · 4 answers · asked by priyanka g 1 in Friends

okay so ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now. His mom hates me, alot. It all started when my bf's littler brother heard a rumor about me at school (that me X-friend started) saying i had sex with my last boyfriend at the church... hahah
But his mom believed it and told her son not to see me anymore. She's been off and on wether she likes me or not. She has kicked him out of the house a few times (hes back now) , grounded him from everything, and yells at him everyday.
She even calls me to tell me to leave him alone. and she asked all these parents and teachers about me. and for example.. a few nights ago he texted me at 3 am saying 'i love you' and i texted him back around 5 whenever i woke up and said 'i love you too' and his mom found his phone and called me saying i woke the entire family up and im ruining their lives and stuff. his life at home is hell now. and i feel like its my fault.

he doesn't want to break up.
he says he'll feel worse.
..what do i do?

2007-03-24 16:17:09 · 21 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Singles & Dating

We were married for 5 years at the time he was diagnosed with an advanced stage of cancer.It wasn't terminal but we were told the journey to get him better was going to be a very lond one.When I found out I totally lost it and I know it was extremely wrong of me but I left him because I didn't think I could deal with the disease and how it'd affect my life.He didn't have any other family so I did feel very guilty but I didn't feel like I had a choice but to leave him.It's been 2 years and he's in remission.I want a second chance so badly.He treated me like a queen throughout the whole time we've been together and I still love him as much as ever.He won't even look me in the eye let alone consider getting back together.What do I do?

2007-03-24 16:17:05 · 108 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my father has the tv on 24/7 full blast and i can't focus on homework, What do i do?

2007-03-24 16:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by kimberly a 1 in Family

What do you think about boys night out? Do you think that girls day out (with the kids usually) should even be compared. What would be an equal trade off?

2007-03-24 16:15:58 · 31 answers · asked by JUDAS RAGE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 16:14:35 · 27 answers · asked by Angeleyes30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All right,so, when the school year started, I sat at the same place I sat last year, however quite a bit of my friends had second lunch and others decided to sit with other people. Anyhow, at this table, it was me, a very good friend of mine, and all of her friends and their friends. I used to be able to tolerate them, I would only see them once a week, and everyything worked out fine. But sitting with them every day just started to wear me out, so I found some of my other friends and sat with them and things just hit off and it was GREAT. However,the old table followed and they don't seem to understand my want of space. They have so many people and complain whenever my new friends have more friends over. It was my old friend's table FIRST.They're also always there, always talking, always trying to be the best of friends. I DON'T WANT THAT! I've tried, believe me. How can I make my feelings known and get them to understand?They're nice people, we just don't click, but they don't know..

2007-03-24 16:14:27 · 5 answers · asked by Waterfaerie 2 in Friends

I’m married. I don’t have any friends, I recently moved to another state. I met a lot of good people at work. One person, in particular, I communicate with more than the others. She is a good friend and I get enough benefits from the wife. I send the friend emails and text messages. My wife flips out whenever I mention this person and wants me to sever all communications with said individual. Is she overreacting? There is no sex involved. The woman and I just goof on each other.

2007-03-24 16:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by xknyghtmayre 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you flirt with a guy on IM?? Thnx!

2007-03-24 16:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend claims he is not cheating even though he has in the past (3 times and a girl is pregnant with his baby) i keep hearing rumors about him cheating again and he claims everyone is "hating" on him and they do not want to see me and him together. I am 24 yrs old and he is 23yrs. i am a senior in college and he does nothing. I broke up with him yesterday but i feel like he may be telling the truth about not cheating. (because of course i want to believe him). what should i do?

2007-03-24 16:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A girl and I are officially together after going on three dates, but I have a bit of a problem. I don't have any time for a job and I have no money, but my parents said they would front me any of the money I need until this summer when my job starts because I am on the school's varsity baseball team. They agreed to this as long as I pay it all back which I will for sure. What could be some alternative ways to have fun with my girlfriend without having to spend so much money on going out and to keep the debt with my parents down to a minimum?

2007-03-24 16:13:06 · 2 answers · asked by Good for somethin' 3 in Singles & Dating

Two years ago, I feel in love with a much younger man who seemed to be relatively out-of-touch with his feelings. He seemed to adore me, in person, but he said many things to protect himself and me, too, from getting too close. Still, we had a mutual understanding. Even though I left the area, somehow, we carried on a long-distance relationship and fell in love. However, just at the end, right as he was about to move, I balked, mostly because my job fell apart. It turned into a terrible phone break-up, with him saying terrible things to me he probably didn't mean, and me getting hurt. Now, after a year, we are talking again, but his language is routinely emotionally confused, but giving me every reason to think I should move on. Still, IK feel that I should see him, but that's hard, because he acts so oddly about the idea of obligation that I can't even seem to make the appointment. I just bought a ticket, though, and I'm goign back to NYC. Is this a wild goose chase?

2007-03-24 16:13:05 · 12 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an Asian lady and I look as good now as I did back when I first turned 20.

Some of my American friends haven't fared so well. I have run into some that a decade ago were so hot but now are wrinkled and fraile.

What is it about the American hard living lifestyle that ages some races so quickly?

2007-03-24 16:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm fifteen, this fall my father had open heart surgery. he's a dentist, so he was out of work for about six weeks. in that time we lost a lot of money, and i mean a lot. well according to the calendar its spring now. and our money situation hasn't gotten any better. In fact its causing conflict with my parents and my parents and me. I can't get a job at the grocery store like other kids my age cause i dont' really have the time or way to get there after school. But i need help please! How can i make money? online? anything. i just don't want to stress my parents anymore and be able to fund my own needs. Thanks for your input. =)

2007-03-24 16:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by chinaxdoll7 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have known each other ever since last year in October. We were like "Associates", we never spent time to get to know each other "personally" as I should say. We have been together for about 3 months and I don't like him and I don't love him...And he feels the same way!!! What is the problem? And where are we at right now!!! Our feelings for each other are so strong and he tells me everyday that he wishes he can say that he loves me,but he say's he doesn't want to be wrong...

2007-03-24 16:11:52 · 4 answers · asked by jasmine m 1 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend is in love with me and I am still dealing with the ex. The ex broke it off with me in June of 2006 and we both parted ways and dated others. Now we are back in each other's lives and I wanted to work things out but he is telling me that he only really wants to have sex(for the most part). I asked him today if he would want to ever get married, he said no. My best friend would do anything for me and cares tremendously about me. I am just confused and saddened by the ex....any words from the wise would be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-03-24 16:11:44 · 27 answers · asked by TextnQueen 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i treat him ive never dated a white boy im black

2007-03-24 16:11:10 · 17 answers · asked by SEXI LADY 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have 4 kids together and my husband is home on a short leave from Iraq. He has not always been the most trustworthy husband but swares that the time in Iraq has changed him. HOWEVER...he decided to leave me at home with our kids tonight to go out with his friend whom I do not trust. I told him how I felt before he left but I guess he didnt care cuz he went anyway. I dont want to be a nagging wife, so I promised myself I would not call him or bother him while he is out. I am extremely uneasy though and am having a really rough time wondering what he is doing and why he doesnt want to be home with us. He only has about 5 days left until he leaves to go back to Iraq. I feel extremely selfish for wanting him to be stuck at home with me and the kids..because I cant go out with anyone...why should he? How do I work through the anger and extreme jealousy and hurt I feel when he does this?

2007-03-24 16:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Proud_Army_Wife26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

be specific and honest open minded.

2007-03-24 16:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by E.B. 1 in Singles & Dating

why women feel ATTRACTION for some men while NOT feeling it for others (even though the men that women feel ATTRACTION for might not be good choices for them because they're abusive, etc.) "how can i be Cocky & Funny"with women on life or even on net
wat jokes can make girls wet them selves from laughing
i see a sexy chick i want to get close to her wat can i do
i see a girl across myspace soo so beautfuil difficuilt to teell you hoe preety she is
i want to be more than friend wat stuffss can u talk about how can i gain her !!!! make her love me plz help your friend maybe one day u will meet me & i will help u toooooooooooooo why not

2007-03-24 16:10:27 · 1 answers · asked by totyplay_2005 1 in Singles & Dating

No I'm not jealous I'm not bitter or anything like that... I also fear that my son will be neglected. The dad and gf have many parties with alcohol and drugs involved, and the people that go to these parties are sometimes gang members. The father is not in a gang though. I want the dad to see his son... I just want it to be under supervision. I am trying to act like an adult, but everytime I try to talk to the father the girlfriend tells me that he doesn't want to talk to me because he hates me. Shes also told me that the dad "hates the fact that my son is his son too"

2007-03-24 16:10:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What exactly are the characteristics that you feel fully describe a woman? I would love to hear from both genders.

2007-03-24 16:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Nidda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok I really like this guy, Ty, and want to make him jelious. My friend, Dest, told me to use this guy, Aaron, who likes me to make Ty jelious, should I, but Im not really like that, PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-24 16:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by beonlyme11 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 16:09:33 · 4 answers · asked by cutepiggy222 1 in Singles & Dating