2007-03-24 16:14:35 · 27 answers · asked by Angeleyes30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he really, or is that just what you think. I have been called a flirt before and didnt even realise what I was doing. I just enjoy people, men or women. I am a very open personality, and what people judge to be flirting, I see as being friendly. I understand what youre saying though because my intentions have been mistaken many times. Whos fault is that though....do I have to watch everything I say, or do I have to explain what my intentions are before talking to someone? I dont know....is it me....or is it the insecurities of other people....or the common misconception that you cannot be friendly with the opposite sex?
Ask you husband does he realise his friendliness could be misconstrued as flirting....maybe he is unaware of it. Talk to him, find out whether he sees it as flirting or just being friendly.
2007-03-24 16:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's bad as long as that's all it is. I know my husband flirts too, but it's usually with women I know he doesn't find attractive, I think he thinks he's doing them a favour by flirting with them, lol. It depends on who it's with, what he's doing to flirt, and how you feel about it. I don't mind my husband flirting with the old ladies at work, I think it's cute. If he was always flirting with the hot young chicks, well, then I might have something to say about it.
2007-03-24 16:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way: If you were the wife and a girlfriend of yours enjoyed teasing and flirting with your husband (the way you're teasing your girlfriend's husband right now), how would you take it? How would you feel? Sometimes, it's not a question of bad or good, but of how we would feel if the same thing were done to us.
2016-03-29 03:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married, yes that is a bad thing!But if hes not physically touching, calling, or making any moves then there isn't actaully a problem because some men just like to be men, which just drives women completely insane.Cuz to us we see as flirting, but to a man its just being friendly. This is one thing a women will never know(what your guy is really thinking about that other girl) I think all women with a significant other should try to figure this out, because i would really like to know why guys can be so dumb sometimes..lol. But i would sit him down and tell him " babe, it really bothers me when you flirt with other women, can you please not do this because it is making me sad/mad" Because if you were flirting with men, i am sure he would be upset. Good Luck, and i hope this helped!
2007-03-24 16:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about it. Does it bother you? If so then say something to him. If he continues to do it then either suck it up or do something about it. I have had that problem so I started giving him a taste of his own medicine! I started flirting too but the problem with that is 2 wrongs don't make a right.
It also depends on his personality. Some people...guys and girls...just have that personality. You know if it's getting out of hand. If that happens then say something or do something. If talking to him doesn't help then you just do what you feel like you need to do.
2007-03-24 16:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you going to different answers, but i being for lousiana, an most of the people here are just nature friendly,, we dont mean any thing , with it, it just a way of showing you a friendky person,,, flirting, is a way of life to some,, an i say mose of the time after the person out of sught, it for got,,,, honest to meany make mountion, out of a mole hill,,,, if you got love an trush,, , you got nothing to worried about,,, an if you both happy in married, , where is it wrong,, honest, people now day to damm stuck up, up, an would walk over you, they dont think, a person, can just be friend,,, now back in the old days, hell they had barn dances, , an dance with each other, an nothing was thought about it,,,
2007-03-25 02:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I sure wouldn't like it. And I would tell him if he wants to be single again then it can be arranged in about 30 days, other wise he needs to knock it off. And then he would get the one chance to stop, after that he'd come home to a new lock on the front, and back door!! Don't but 5 minutes to change the locks.
2007-03-24 16:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband is being disrespectful and insensitive towards you.
I believe that flirting becomes a "bad" (or disrespectful) thing when your partner's actions bother you.
Have a talk with him and let him know that it bothers you.
Good luck :)
2007-03-24 16:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i feel this is not good at all... Flirting around is not good as it can turn serious and into cheating and affairs someday. He is married for goodness sakes so the only one he should be flirting with is you! JMHO! He needs to grow up and start acting like he is married. this is very disprespectful to you and to your marriage as well.
2007-03-24 16:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask? No woman wants a man who flirts, give him a taste of his own medicine and see how long he will put up with it...not very long I am guessing.
Good Luck
2007-03-24 16:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋