If I was with another woman and him at the same time? I just don't get it. Don't most guys dream of this kind of encounter?
2007-03-24 16:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men do like this fantasy but not all men. Some men do not like the idea of their woman being with anyone other then them..and see it as cheating.
2007-03-24 16:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If so your husband married you - that means he is interested in more than just a sex fantasy but wants a lifelong meaningful committed relationship filled with real love.
Now if you wanted to expand the marriage to a 3 way committed relationship that would be a different thing (though statistically it almost never works out) but just to say "I love you and want to be with you always... except every other tuesday when I want to go out and pick up a random chick for meaningless lesbian one night stand" tells him that deep down you aren't as serious about the relationship as he is, and that can be very very frightening when you're talking about the biggest and most meaningful commitment of your life.
If this isn't a husband, but just a boyfriend (I'm assuming it's a husband because it's asked in the Marriage/Divorce section) well than that's fair enough... it also warns him that you aren't that serious about getting into a committed relationship in advance.
Yes, it is a very very common sexual fantasy among men to have two women at once. It is no man's fantasy though to feel inadequate or 'not enough' for his true love, so please bear that in mind.
2007-03-24 23:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most dudes are selfish pr!cks that want to own you. I on the other hand, would be glad to share you with 100 woomen!
2007-03-24 23:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks you just found out why they are called fantasies....or as you said Dream.
2007-03-24 23:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would bother some guys because it's not the natural way of things.
Sure would bother me, and I'm not even a guy.
2007-03-24 23:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because he really loves you. He wants you to himself. You go, girl. You got him on lock...
2007-03-24 23:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Xpensive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno.
i asked my husband.. he said he doesn't share...
2007-03-24 23:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋