my boyfriend claims he is not cheating even though he has in the past (3 times and a girl is pregnant with his baby) i keep hearing rumors about him cheating again and he claims everyone is "hating" on him and they do not want to see me and him together. I am 24 yrs old and he is 23yrs. i am a senior in college and he does nothing. I broke up with him yesterday but i feel like he may be telling the truth about not cheating. (because of course i want to believe him). what should i do?
2007-03-24 16:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him!!!! He is expecting a baby with some that is not you. He's going to have to see the baby's mother, and eventually things may happen. he might start to cheat on you again with his baby mother. so do your self a favor, leave him, you have a bright future ahead, and he isn't doing any thing to better him self, now what does that say about him. LEAVE HIM.
2007-03-24 16:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you are with a guy who has cheated on you already 3 times...he has turned you into one of his love nests.. someone he knows he has in the background.. somone solid someone he can spend time with when his dick aint in some other hot girls pussy.. like it or not a guy cheats on his girl because they need someone sexy.. mysterious.. a class act on the side to give them the exitement and experiance they desire.
Truth hurts.. if u have any integrity in you left you will dump his *** and bruise his ego to the point where you will get reilief in seeing him try and kiss your feet. I feel sorry that you have yet to experiance true love and its sad to know that you are missing out. Cheaters expeically repeated offenders.. understand this now.. for them its a drug one they can never live without. A man who loves you loves you too much to hurt you. Love is composed of passion, emotional connection and mental compatability and it is these three things that entangle you within each others hearts.
2007-03-25 07:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by C Dizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship shouldn't be this hard. If he has cheated previously, and things have gotten messy, it sounds like you are carrying waaay too much of his baggage. You may want to believe he isn't cheating, and he may be telling the truth this time, but staying with him isn't going to do you any favours. Trust me, there are way better things out there for you. Make a clean break, and definitely don't get back with him.
2007-03-24 23:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Joanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not tell you what to do- you will need to decide for yourself because i can not determine what you should to so affect your future. That would not be the right thing for me to do. He may be telling you the truth about not cheating but when there is doubt you need to ask yourself why you are doubtful Also it is my opinion that you need to examine the fact that he does nothing. Ask yourself if you are well suited for each other. This is all the advise that i can give you. I wish you well whatever you decide-to stay broken up or to return to him. Remember to trust your intuition a little more.
2007-03-24 23:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple answer: if he's cheated on you already and he has a kid with another girl, you stay the hell away. think about it. you have a bright future ahead of you, while this guy doesn't even have anything. truth be told, he's only mooching off you.
but it looks like you've already decided, and good for you too. hopefully, he doesn't sweet-talk you back into the relationship, because once you're in it again, it'll just grow worse, believe me. a man who can't stand on his word isn't worth the title "man."
it's at times like this that being a "man" pisses me off because it's guys like your ex that makes sense out of the saying "men are pigs" because the way i see it, he really is one (and a lot of other things i don't want to mention here).
but if you really want to give him another chance, try this out: ask him to GET A JOB first. then ask him to ACT LIKE A FATHER to his kid next. if he's fulfilled those two properly already, maybe he's worth a second thought. otherwise, leave the guy to his problems - looks like he's already in deep and you wouldn't want to join in with him.
2007-03-25 00:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kwinsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that loser dude, his going to drag you down in the end. he isn't worth you heartache, what more reasons do you what another baby from some chick. no way you did the right thing and left that kid, that's what he is a kid who can't control himself and his good for nothing feelings.
2007-03-24 23:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by sweetchildvc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok him cheating on you is one time to many. thats why if my boyfriend ever cheated on me. yea i love him with all my heart but if someone cheats on you they dont love you. cuz thats just not somthing you do to someone that you love and thats just the facts.
hes a dog
move on
you can do better
2007-03-24 23:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ty'sGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing to do... stay the hell away from him, he got a girl pregnant, which means he is gunna pay child support for the next 18 years... he doesnt do anything which means U will end up paying for his mistake
2007-03-24 23:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have alleady move on, then stick to your ground, he
has been cheating,the proof is the baby, you deserve better
time to find someone that will appreciate you, he does not
so dont waste time with him.
2007-03-24 23:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only because i belive in 2nd chances..
tell him you know whats going down, and hes lucky your stickin around to give him another try, he messes up again, your gone.
if he does screw up again, leave and find a guy who will treat you better.
2007-03-24 23:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by raieonfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋