Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

almost at our 1st yr anniversary, and i already can't take much more. he doesnt seem to realy understand who i am. i constantly ask him to just help me around the house, and everytiime he promises to be more helpful, two days later its the same old thing. i was raised in a home where we cleaned the house ceiling to floor, EVERYDAY! he was raised by his always at work father, and stand in moms and girlfriends. we are both in the army, military police, we work long hard hours and both HAVE to contribute, or we will not succeed. i told him i cant do this anymore, and something has to change. he doesnt take me serious and now he wants to have our first kid. he is 27 yrs and i am 20 yrs. SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE!!!!!! he should be more mature. it has to be the difference in how we were raised....? right? how much more can i do, is this love? marraige? fair? equal? i wasnt raised this way.....i find it odd im acting this way for anyone.

2007-03-23 03:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

after i devoted 29 yrs to our marriage he now says he owes me nothing. not even an explanation will a judge refer him to a marriage counselor if i request it? and what happens if i do not respond to papers when served. i may be a fool, but i still deeply love him, he makes my life complete if i back off and give him space do you think things could improve. does time really have a way of making people think about things?

2007-03-23 03:19:00 · 14 answers · asked by MIMKA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 03:18:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can anyone help find my boyfriends dad who lives in america,my boyfriens is from the uk,his dad left about 23 years ago.If anyone knows any good websites i can track him down by his name,that would be good.

2007-03-23 03:17:37 · 2 answers · asked by pepsicola 1 in Family

2007-03-23 03:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Portuga 4 in Singles & Dating

ihave een adopted looking for birth parents

2007-03-23 03:16:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-23 03:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is there anyway you can get divorced free of money if you and your spouse both agree and dont have any children and have only been married for three years?

2007-03-23 03:16:16 · 15 answers · asked by duckgirl313 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 03:16:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so for a caterer estimate etc for 75 pp, would that be myself and fiance + 73 guests?

2007-03-23 03:16:01 · 19 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.

She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?

Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.

Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.

This girls actions are confusing...

2007-03-23 03:14:59 · 22 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 03:14:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my guy broke up last night after 16 months. I really loved him and realized that after we got off the phone. I've always been taught to fight for what I want, so that's what I'm going to do. I have this text in my phone that I was thinking of sending to him. It's fairly long, explaining to him that I loved him and nobody else, that I trust him, and is there a chance we can get back together? Should I send this today or wait until sometime next week? <3

2007-03-23 03:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

Last year we made a scrapbook for mom, so this year we want to do something different for dad.

2007-03-23 03:13:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to speak english to somebody .
i have not friends.
what can i do?????
important

2007-03-23 03:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by yousha0 1 in Friends

It seems he is never happy and is always griping about something...ususally money and how "things" should have been. Constantly complains to everyone!!!! I feel like blowing up at him and telling him to stop bringing everyone he meets down.GRRRR

2007-03-23 03:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by faye 2 in Family

My bf has no teeth and when he eats me its the most wonderful feeling I have ever had. Its also the only way I have been able to get off. His gf kicked him out after she found out that he cheated on her over 3 years ago while they were together. Am I wrong for keeping him around just for sex. I have tried telling him he needs to go home to her because he said he's still paying the bills there. But she wants to start over with him after being together for 10 years as friends and start dating again etc. So im not being totally selfish.

2007-03-23 03:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 03:11:09 · 17 answers · asked by Sami A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi...
my bf i kind of really agressive nd rough whenever v kiss or make out....
how do i make him a bit more calmer or gentle....?

2007-03-23 03:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BF has been going thru the divorce from hell - for about 2.5 years now. We met 6 months ago, and it was truly love at first sight!

So-- his divorce should be final in the next few weeks (end of April), and he's already hinting at me moving in, and spending the rest of his life with me.

I LOVE IT!! If he asked me to marry him today, I'd say "ABSOLUTELY YES"! But, I want him to have some time on his own again, and not jump into another LTR.

How do I suggest that he take some time, without hurting him?

2007-03-23 03:10:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jayelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This happened last night. We've been dating for 16 months, and he said this to me while sobbing and crying.
Me: Are you okay? It sounds like you're crying.
Him: I am.
Me: Why?
Him: Because I think we need a break.
Me: Oh. Okay.
*LONG PAUSE*
Him: Can we still be friends?
Me: Yeah, sure.
Then we got off. Does this mean he really does want a break, or is this an easy way of telling me we're over for good. And his friend told me that he txted him and my ex told him it was because we didn't trust each other. <3

2007-03-23 03:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 03:10:42 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

love is so hared when your young and you dont think about any thing but who they r going out with.

2007-03-23 03:10:17 · 19 answers · asked by nae nae 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 03:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by AbandonAngel89 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 03:09:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 03:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by lxbeautiful.disasterxl 1 in Friends

One of my friend's tiffany she is alwasys being rude to me. Saying I am dumb that I should have been blond. Just always makeing me feel bad. Then sometimes she is really cool. Cassey well she and me been through alot togeter, but now she goes out with one of my ex's. And We were bff's.. Are they really my friends?

2007-03-23 03:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina w 1 in Singles & Dating

this gurl says she iz my bff and she iz like my siser but i think she fake how do i really know?

2007-03-23 03:08:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm going to a mates house for dinner & a goss later, v casual, but a guy I'm kinda interested in is going to be there too, so, I'm wearing jeans & ..... This is what I need answered, do I wear a low cut long length t-shirt? or do I wear an off the shoulder, double zipped cardigan? Both would work with jeans, just an impression of which style to go for?

Thanks

2007-03-23 03:08:11 · 19 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Singles & Dating

things have be rocky for awhile now with me and my husband we have been going to counsling and things just dont seem to be getting any bettter. well, then last night we wee agruing and he said that he didnt love me anymore and i said well u must because u r still wearing your ring, and when i said that he took off his ring and dropped i on the floor, i ended up picking it up. afterthat he put on his old class ring and said this is the onlyring i am going to wear from nw on. why would he do that? coul it really bo over. need advice and opinions please. o'yah also i am 3 days late, might be pg again, and r youngest in only 3 months old. when i told him that i might be he told me that he will pay for an obortion, and that if i am i am going to have to raise r son and the new baby all by my-self. very scared right now, what should i do?

2007-03-23 03:07:53 · 27 answers · asked by greengrass 3 in Marriage & Divorce