BF has been going thru the divorce from hell - for about 2.5 years now. We met 6 months ago, and it was truly love at first sight!
So-- his divorce should be final in the next few weeks (end of April), and he's already hinting at me moving in, and spending the rest of his life with me.
I LOVE IT!! If he asked me to marry him today, I'd say "ABSOLUTELY YES"! But, I want him to have some time on his own again, and not jump into another LTR.
How do I suggest that he take some time, without hurting him?
2007-03-23 03:10:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jayelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be honest and tell him your point of view and the two of you can discuss it and mutually come up with a plan. I think it is very good of you to give him some time because you are absolutely correct, he does need to have some time to move on from all of that! It will also make your relationship better! God bless you.
2007-03-23 04:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Moni B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce is that ugly he will need some time to recover and ensure that you are not "rebound girl". At least six months or so. Better to wait a year or more before you marry this guy.
2007-03-23 10:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him and love the idea of being with him for the rest of your lives, but you want him to see how he does being single. And that you want him to have the time with out a "significant other" to know that he wants you forever!!! And support him through it.
2007-03-23 10:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by ladybugg0224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be subtle. tell him that you love him but you want totake things a little slow that way you can get to know eachother and so his divorce will have to to stick. make sure he knows how you feel about him and remind him often. then when your ready tell him and he will probally be ok with that.
2007-03-23 10:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try telling him how you really feel in the long run he'll respect you more because of your honesty
2007-03-23 10:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to be the "rebound" relationship.
2007-03-23 10:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flat out tell him
2007-03-23 10:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by lisaanndubay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋