2007-03-23 03:14:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HI
Kindness is always a plus but sometimes annoying so just be normal and not overly kind and alsways be polite.
Lammy
2007-03-23 03:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Clammy S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is okay to be extremely kind to someone who does not reply your love. I love this guy but he says that he is a relationship with someone else and I am hoping that the relationship he is now does no work out because all of my friends say that he will realize that the two of you are meant to be together.
2007-03-23 10:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ok to to them? yes i expect so, but do they know you love them?... is it ok to you? or is it ok the world? it's not a very clear question, but if you're asking it it's either been put to you by someone interfering (in which case think whether it actually bothers you) or if it came to your mind then it's either because you don't want to do it anymore with no return or you're getting to the resentment stage and are actually going to start thinking they're a bad person when really you don't feel that at all. I think you need to be clear about what it is you are actually feeling here before you can figure out what it is you actually want. Did you feel a lot for this person at one stage and you've just got into a habit of feeling for them? Cos you don't sound too sure.
2007-03-23 10:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who doesn't "reply" your love? Are you being extremely kind for something in return? If so,stop. Being kind should be who you are anyway. If you are looking for reciprocity, don't hold your breath. You can't make people be what you want them to be. If someone is rude or not responding to your "come-ons", take a hint and leave that person alone.
2007-03-23 10:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Iwannanewcar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly & honestly love & want to be kind to someone the love & kindnss that you have for that person will emerge & show naturaly. You are suppose to be giving your love & kindness freely & openly straight from your heart. It is great when you recieve it back as well but if you don't you should not give up on how you are feeling just because it is not being returned. If you do not have pure love & kindness for this person and you are just pretending to be kind and showing your love to him/her but you feel that you are being denied the love & kindness from the person that you are pretending to love then that is showing you that that person doesn't love or want to be kind to you and is not going to put a front on just to make you believe that that person does. or that person has caught on to your little game (if you are playing one) and is not going to show you the true love & kindness that that person has for you because you are not being truthful with that person. My meaning to this is that if love & kindness does not come naturaly from both parties then there is no reason to get up set about it. If you truly love this person and your kindness is real then you should accept this person for whom he/she is and not push yourself on this person or expect payback, but if you don't have love & kindness for this person or you are feeling unloved by this person then you should just move on with your life. Love & Kindness is not a debt that is owed to you or to anyone else.
It comes naturaly.
Good Luck
2007-03-23 11:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I wouldn't be extremely kind to that person. You would be wasting your time of the day for that someone. If they don't love you like you love them then I wouldn't waste my time of being THAT kind to them. Just be yourself and just treat them the way they treat you.
2007-03-23 10:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by lxbeautiful.disasterxl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always ok to be kind. If you mean obsessively kind like a stalker though the answer would be no.
I always try to be nice even to the abundant number of jerk out there.
2007-03-23 10:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always OK to be kind to someone. If it is someone you like, then just keep it up. If they are smart, they will notice you for the kind person you are. :)
2007-03-23 10:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christi D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, but what is your real motive? If you're trying to win her over, it probably won't work. If you're just being kind because it's your nature, go ahead and be kind, but don't expect her attitude about you to change.
2007-03-23 10:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the person u love doesnt love u back, its still a natural thing to be kind to them.
2007-03-23 10:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Meteor Ice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋