Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

What would you pick? Being loaded or having a life of happiness? It's up 2 u!

2007-03-23 02:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Evertongrl 2 in Family

There's this guy in school n I've liked him ever since I 1st saw him (a year ago).. & I've been thinking abt him more often lately...
we've never spoken, but I feel like we have a special connection or I wudn't b interested in the first place & I juz can't get him outta my mind
I recently found out more abt him (I have connections) & I think that we're really different, almost total opposites.. like he likes heavy metal n I like lighter and softer kind of music... he likes more practical stuff, like PE & arts.. I like stuff which has more to do with science and languages...
now I juz keep thinking that if we're so different, what are the chances that we'll get along or even have a common topic to talk abt?
I really like him for some reason, and recently, he watched a game I was in, which is a bit puzzling cuz he has never been to one before. I duno if its bcuz his frenz were there..
so, I need to know if I shud go for him or juz let it be the way it is..??

thx!

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xox

2007-03-23 02:53:09 · 1 answers · asked by Serenity C 3 in Singles & Dating

when a women u were with expects to be treated like a total queen her words and being beautiful is "a given" and expects everything to be handed to her on a plate because she deserves it even though she just uses people, would you run a mile????

2007-03-23 02:52:14 · 18 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughters bday is in a couple weeks and we are having a pool party at a local hotel.School friends, family, cake etc.. My MIL is giving me a hard time about making time for her gifts. She will not bring them to the party.She always wants a special session for her gifts so she can get the appropriate reaction and thanks. Believe me, comments are made if its not the reaction she wanted. The older I get the less I want to put up with this manipulative behavior so this year I simply said no. You would think that I had slapped her. I'm not trying to pick a fight or be the bad guy but this drives me nuts!!!!!!! Am I wrong to not give her her way or should I stick to my decision?

2007-03-23 02:51:59 · 14 answers · asked by Ee 3 in Family

I just don't know why it bothers me so much. Having to call my ex girlfriend an ex. The thing is, me and her took a break from each other until we were ready for one another. Now I have to give her the title ex. I hate it so much and I wish I could call her something else but I can't really think of a different word. Ex just doesn't sound right. I just hate the word. And people tell me that ex's should be left in the past but it depends on why you split up. Like I said, me and my ex took a break because she had to focus on her college work. She couldn't keep so much on her sholder and I take most of the blame for calling her so much on mistake even when shes in school when I don't know. But yeah the title ex bugs me. What can I do to stop having that word in my head for her. Whenshes the one that I want to be back with?

2007-03-23 02:50:55 · 15 answers · asked by Dusher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many times a week do most men feel the need to have sex?

2007-03-23 02:49:43 · 28 answers · asked by Michael Jackson 1958 - FOREVER 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is way too attention starved. I show her tons of attention, but she still allows men at work to flirt and make negative comments. She allows men to talk about what a MILF she is and say other crude things, but she thinks its funny and not a big deal. I tell her it is appropriate for these guys to talk to a married woman like that, it she says they are just kidding. The problem comes in where i do not want my daughter to allow men to talk to her like trash and i wonder what kind of influence her attitude will have on my children. I have already talked to her about it and it hasnt helped...whats next?

2007-03-23 02:49:42 · 15 answers · asked by John D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why can't people keep commments to their self or talk it out

2007-03-23 02:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so i broke up with my g/f well not really i told her that i need a few days to think i mean i love her but she lives in tennessee nd i live in ohio i never tlk to her or see her what should i do?????
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2007-03-23 02:49:39 · 7 answers · asked by S[he];BE[li]EV[ed] 1 in Singles & Dating

I am doing the programs for a good friend of mine's wedding. Her 1st husband passed away 5 years ago and she is remarrying this fall. She wants on her programs a section about honoring people she was close with whom have passed. She asked me if it would be tacky to include her 1st husband. I think not since he was the father of her only child and a great person. What do you think?

2007-03-23 02:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by TinaSmiley 2 in Weddings

What's that thing you get under your eyes after you've cried a lot? I completely forgot the word.

2007-03-23 02:48:51 · 3 answers · asked by kt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u think money is all needs in life or one can buy all the thing from money in world .

2007-03-23 02:48:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need ideas please help.

2007-03-23 02:47:39 · 40 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 02:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i would like to know!

2007-03-23 02:45:43 · 16 answers · asked by itsalltasha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-23 02:45:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets say me and my friend were at the movies with our boyfriends and we had no clue it was coming but they went down our pants and fingered us does that mean that we are only half a virgin or are you still completely a virgin

2007-03-23 02:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Singles & Dating

well last night I made out with him and I felt like an Angel hahaha it was so romantic because we were laying in bed and when I woke up he was like goodmorning angel it was so romantic but..........he is against mexicans I found out but I am mexican what should I do???????

2007-03-23 02:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy asked my best friend on a date.She said no so he asked me.I said yes so we went out to the seventy's dance.She came in wearing a sexy dress and stole my date.He liked her dress so much he forgot about me.My friend stole my date.Should i still be friends with her.

2007-03-23 02:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

met a guy around 9 months ago.We gelled & clicked right from the start , like best friends as well as lovers..But i discovered over time that this guy was a classic commitment phobic. He use to say that all of his ex's were too needy etc but I actually think it was him as he is very immature & erratic for age 28!!. during the space of time he had messed me about with broken promises due to his inability 2 commit. I am trying to movin on as he hurt me so bad, messed me about. I don't ever call him! He is still calling me after 2-3 months. He called me a few days ago telling me that he misses me, my company,someone to liase & laugh with & asked me to come & see him so i went (no sex involved) He was just talkin to me saying that he does think he made a mistake letting me go, but that he wasn't ready and still isn't! so he is still just a waste of time! he said he isnt ready 4 a relationship with anyone right now. Another is he owes me around 800.00 which is payed in my account monthy

2007-03-23 02:41:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 02:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by missy61302 1 in Weddings

i cant believe she's no more... we used to be best friends when we were kids.. i havent spoken to her these past couple of years .. i feel guilty because i keep thinking that i could have done something more.. there was this other girl who used to be friends with us... i thought she was a nice girl until now.. but then i saw her laughing and to top it all she kept blaming my friend for taking her life.. i know it was a bad decision but the way she said it hurt me..is this what friendship comes to?? have fun while you can and when something happens get on with ur life?? and here i am feeling guilty for eating.. i am still not over the shock and i dont know what to do..

2007-03-23 02:41:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There are obviously numerous reasons why I shouldn’t. Her age is the biggest. She is only 16. Plus I am not sure how comfortable my friend will be with the situation.

She is very mature for her age and I have been spending a lot of time with her over the past year, on account I work for her dad at their house. We get on like a house on fire, always chatting and laughing. I am positive she feels the same way I do; we accidentally touch each other, hands coming together when stroking the dog, legs touching when sitting next to each other, that kind of thing. I try and keep it subtle as I don't want her family finding out just yet.

So, do I tell her how I feel? Hope that her family understands, or let her go and try and move on. She is only 16; she has sixth form, University ahead of her. I've done all that. I don't know, I just know I love her.

2007-03-23 02:40:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jack S 1 in Singles & Dating

i burst out laughing ,which was a nice start to the day at something my boyfriend said, then said 'want a coffee,'
with which words did you all start your day ?

2007-03-23 02:39:49 · 45 answers · asked by ravey 3 in Friends

I found myself very addicted to a drug, and after my parents were killed it was easier to become an addict. Well my judge sentenced me to a year with the completion of the rehab. It saved my life but now i find that i dont relate with a lot of my friends and even my husband anymore....How many have gone through the same sort of experience?

2007-03-23 02:39:43 · 2 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most girls like spontaneity I think. So, after last night's game, we were talking about driving from Columbus to San Antonio later today to watch Ohio St. play tomorrow. I know it's a basketball game, but would anyone else appreciate just getting up and going just because you could? I am REALLY excited about the proposition.

2007-03-23 02:39:42 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has a low sex drive and she hardly ever wants to have sex. She knows that I love having sex with her though. I wine her and dine her, bring her roses every week, take her here take her there, cuddle with her for hours on end, and so on. I've asked her if there's anything else I can do to make her happy but she always says everything is fine. I'm losing a lot of sleep over this. I love her and sex is not everything in a relationship but I would like to have more than I'm having with her, and we're not even married yet. I'm starting to have some second thoughts now about marriage. Please help. Thanks.

2007-03-23 02:39:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 02:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at chruch say i was cute befor and she stares at me alot and i stare back we dont talk at all but we look in are eyes for long lastweek she start stareing at me i stare back and we look in are eyes for long then later i hear hes cute of her i dont know if the girl was talking about me i think so and i was the 1 boy there whats a teen like her and my firend go sit whit her hand she keep on stareing at me and lauge and smileing and touge tie a little and keep on stareing at me and wispering to my firend does this girl like me and the girl start the stareing?

2007-03-23 02:38:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am an asian guy. i am tall, really worked out and my `friend down there` is big)))

but i got this issue bout my eyes which holds me back all the time. i am intimadated by white guys to approach to make friends with them and even more which i am really dying for!

i am always kinda concious bout my asian eyes. i just cant get over it. even if some white guys tell me i am hot, i just cant accept and appreciate it, cuz there`s this nasty/freaky feeling that tells me i am not worth any white guys.

pls tell me how to get over it.

and i guess there`s no need to insult me.

2007-03-23 02:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by 360 1 in Singles & Dating